How to Transform Life or Relationship Difficulties


By Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD

A Sure Catalyst for Answers, Growth and Personal Transformation.

Let’s set the record straight and say that relationships are fraught with deep challenges, inner pain, turmoil and downright agony at times. I’ve lived through it myself, and have found a way that is beyond anything I can describe to get out of the pain, see the situation from the higher perspective as opposed to the personality perspective, and transform each and every challenge into profound personal growth and transformation.

For some of you, what I am about to share might seem a bit “out there” and for others, this will be a welcome relief.

How did I transform it all? How did I receive the wisdom to do it when I was immersed in deep pain? I will tell you. I honestly and purely wrote letters to God asking for answers, and I received them.

I asked for the highest perspective. I asked how to transform it all. I asked for the view I could hold within my mind to help me transcend the pain my personality was experiencing so that I could discover my truth, and then have the inner strength to follow through in my actions.

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Many people think that God does not answer us personally. I can attest to the countless people I teach about how to receive answers from God that God does answer, and not only with answers, but with life transforming insight.

The process is actually simple. Write your questions from your heart, and ask for Divine guidance. Ask how to overcome your challenges. Ask how to deal with the situation so that your words and actions support what is for your highest good, as opposed to just what your personality might be stuck on.

Sometimes what we think we want is not always for our highest good. Many times, we can look back on situations from our past and admit that the people and situations that did not work out, ultimately worked out for our best. It’s easy to see from hindsight, and I want you to learn how to see and receive the wisdom you can receive so that even during your most painful and emotionally challenging times, you can actually receive the guidance you need that will far outweigh your trying to figure it all out on your own on the personality level.

When I was experiencing deep emotional pain from a “string along” relationship, I had been doing writings to God for many years. While I had tears flowing down my cheeks, the words of God came into my mind, as I wrote my book Stop Being the String Along: A Relationship Guide to Being THE ONE. I definitely did not write that book on my own accord, or from my wisdom. I was in pain. It was all written through me, chapter by chapter, and the words and messages healed my pain, and then went on to help so many other people who are in pain in the area of romantic relationships.


Let’s face it, if anything can get a woman to write letters to God, it would be from experiencing relationship pain, and wanting answers. You can receive answers too!

Use the emotional pain you feel in your heart as a catalyst for receiving the higher perspective. From that vantage point, you will receive objective clarity, guidance, insight, direction and truth. You will be amazed at the higher perspective you receive and even more amazed at how this helps you to transform your difficulties into authentic opportunities for personal growth and transformation.

When you write you questions, ask from your heart, and then as words flow into your mind in the form of an answer, write every word you receive verbatim and then re-read what you received in your writing.

Don’t ask for predictions, ask for solutions. Don’t ask how everything is going to turn out. That is based on fear. Ask what you can do, and how you can view the situation so that you are coming into your highest truth, even if you feel afraid of loss.

The one person on earth that you can never lose is yourself. The one place where you can receive every answer to every question that is weighing on your heart and in your mind is your God-Self within. Your Higher Self. This has nothing to do with religion. Whether you call it God, All That Is, Source, Holy Spirit, no matter what name you give it, the source is the same. It is our life force. It is that “still small voice” within. It is your gut instincts – and you can receive it all in writing, so that you can always have a place to turn to any time you feel uncertain. You will become authentically empowered, and your life will begin to transform as you honor your truth.

Many times, it is a process, as opposed to a one time event. Many times we might not follow or listen to the higher guidance we receive, such as to leave a destructive and emotionally hurtful relationship out of fear of not being loved, or being alone. However, the truth will ultimately win in the end as you keep asking for the higher perspective, and as you keep persevering with the true desire to want to grow and evolve, rather than try to change another person.

If you want true changes in your life and in your relationship, you have to evolve and change, just like I did. We all have to.

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Relationships are the most extraordinary catalysts to get us to honor our truth, and our painful feelings cause us to ask ourselves what we really want. The answers we receive will be what we ultimately want on a soul level, and what is for our highest good. You are entitled to live a life of inner peace, rather than in constant emotional drama and inner pain.

Ask the questions. Read your answers, and above everything else, follow what you know in your heart to be your deepest truth rather than lie to yourself. You’re all you’ve got. Start to become your own best friend. Set the intention to lift yourself up by asking how to in your writings. You will receive all of the answers you need. It is your divine birthright after all.

© Copyright 2012 by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved.

The Virgin Experiment I NEVER Thought I Would Make Public

The Virgin Experiment I NEVER Thought I Would Make Public
By Barbara Rose, PhD

The following information is deeply personal. It was a “virgin experiment” that took place between January 14, 2001 and January 17, 2001. At that time, I desperately wanted to know if the answers I was receiving from God were actual truth, or not.

I asked my boyfriend at the time to ask me questions that he knew I had absolutely no prior knowledge about. I wrote down the questions, slept for three solid days, and woke up bringing through the answers in forty three hand written pages.

What I am about to share with you are only the answers that I believe can be for anyone’s eyes, however the more personal questions that were asked and answered, I shall not disclose, because they are personal and would not serve any purpose for you whatsoever.

For confidentiality purposes, I have changed the name to “Al” when a name was mentioned. I must note that I failed high school algebra, and the only science class I ever took in my life was high school biology. I did not have a scientific background or education at any time in my life, including now. I still don’t know what all of this means, but that is okay. If it serves you in any positive manner, or brings you enjoyment in reading this, that is all I care about.

Here are the five questions and the answers that follow transcribed verbatim.

The Questions asked on 1-14-2001

How close is the next highly intelligent life from outside our solar system?

When will we discover extraterrestrial intelligence?

Why does a photon act like a particle and a wave?

What are atomic particles made of?

Is space-time quantized – made up of specific pieces – or one continuous thing?

The answers received in writing via Higher Self Communication on 1-17-2001

“Well, you have quite a list! First and foremost, know that you are a being of light, and you are commended and congratulated at taking this evolutionary leap into the multitude of awareness and information you shall receive through Barbara, until you are absolutely positive that a higher non-physical intelligence exists – and then you shall ask her, “How do I do this so I can get this information for my research myself?”

So you too will come to learn that as space is one continuous, ever evolving, particle into matter, intelligence into chemical, one wave, continuously moving the sub-atomic particles into the next – it is always connected – and then it is absorbed. So you will see, in your own research, that a particle is contained within a wave – not acting like two separate things – but appearing as if they do – as the instruments have not yet been discovered to measure the particles so tiny – as sub-sub-sub particles – so they appear as if they are separate, however they truly are not.

Anytime a photon is radiated out into the atmosphere – it moves – that is the wave – it is moving what appears to be a particle is due to the absorption of this photon. And so this seeming particle is absorbed, it appears as if there is no wave – but there is – for the sub squared 3 particle of the photon is far too small to still measure within that wave – so it appears that there is no wave – when in actuality – there really is – so do not ever simply judge by appearances. Einstein certainly did not – he “knew” that there was more than meets the eye – so you will come to learn perhaps even research and disseminate one day that if you take the word “string and replace it with the word “wave” what in actuality is going to be discovered is the “wave theory” not the string theory.

Now – this wave theory will come to show that all matter, all particles are connected. Yes, some absorbed, some appearing as though they are separate – however they do cause a reaction. Each wave – whether it is sent out by thought, light, electricity, radiation – atomic energy – is all causing a wave. That wave continues until it is absorbed – until its absorption serves its purpose of this wave.

Now this purpose may be bringing plant life their nutrition. It may be a thought or a true wish for something – like a library in one’s home – it is pictured mentally – this mental picture – this intention – causes its own wave, until it reaches, interacts, connects, and ultimately manifests what that wave was seeking – as a result of the intention, which was sent out as the original starting point of that wave.

So until each eave fulfills its designated purpose, it continues to interact and connect with other particles and waves. Once its purpose, its primary intended purpose is achieved – it is met with what will come to be known as the “absorption factor.”

Each wave is absorbed – when its original purpose is met. It is absorbed into matter. Some matter has a higher frequency of energy – and so at such a high frequency – it appears to simply disappear – but it does not disappear – it either connects and interacts, or it is absorbed into matter of some form.

Sometimes, as I have said, the form is of such high frequency, that your science has not yet discovered the instruments or even the theories to produce measuring data at this high frequency – for it exists in another dimension – the non-physical dimension – which begins in the fourth dimension and works its way up to the 11th dimension.

Now, as a scientist, how exactly do you suppose you are going to be able to measure a sub squared 3 particle of a photon in the non-physical dimension – on the physical third dimension of earth? You cannot – yet – there will be souls – who grow, who evolve – who will actually be able to simultaneously work on both the third and fourth dimension of, or rather between the physical and non-physical “worlds” so as to help speed up the evolution of the human species.

Now, you asked about the next higher level of intelligent life – it is in the 4th dimension – in this non-physical dimension – where life – where learning – where evolution continues, but not attached to the material realm. Here in the 4th dimension pure intention creates our reality – our “heaven” or our “hell.” Our intentions have consequences – both positive and negative. That is why you are still on the 3rd dimension – to see that as you think – so you shall have – when you think love – you have joy – when you think fear – you have pain – so you are learning – in each lifetime – how to create via your intentions and so when you graduate so to speak – you will no longer need a body – with aches and pains, or a car, you will travel through and with your intention.

Now you gave this name “extraterrestrial life.” There is much life, in each dimension of this universe. We – your higher selves – do communicate with you – all of the time – every instant – we do not look like aliens, we are pure spirit – pure soul energy, which can be read and recognized within the light spectrum of color. So just as you have a face – we have light and color – and that is our face. Sometimes we contemplate fear – so our colors change – sometimes we are filled with joyful energy – so our colors have much more white – just as some have a “bad hair day” or their face “glows” our energy is read much the same way – just no body – no tired feet – it’s not that it’s “better” it’s just that this was the next step up the evolutionary scale. Who needs a body and a car when we can travel with pure thought – think about it – travel with pure thought. So if you want to see how it feels up here – then do grow – do evolve – for Barbara is headed for this dimension after this life – and if you would like to join her – try listening to her more.

Sorry – but you are so connected and you truly can learn much – that is your choice Al. You choose your reality – your existence – your car – how, when, where and with whom you travel. So up here – there are no gas lines – no currency – the currency is in the form of an energy exchange. Positive begets positive. Same for negative.

Now – obviously space-time – as you call it is quantized – but within this quantum leap of theory – there are pieces – particles – as we have shared with you. It is all one continuous stream – wave – of light – energy, moving, connecting, absorbing – and being created.

So in answer to your question – it is both – one within the other.

Sub atomic particles are made up of the molecular derivatives of radioactive energy – which are split three times, and it is the energy contained within those particles that cause the atomic – or sub-atomic reaction. The energy is absorbed within the sub-atomic particle – again the wave theory in motion so as it is absorbed – you cannot yet measure it.

All energy is active – always – it does not stop – it either connects with another energy, or it moves until it either connects or is absorbed. It may be contacted by a different energy, which causes a whole new set of chain reactions, and this all kinds of “new waves” are produced.

That is why atomic energy which moves reacts at such high speed and frequency. Its sub atomic particles are contacted by the molecular derivatives of other energy components which are absorbed – into the sub-atomic particles – until they react as a result of this energy contact – and then you have atomic energy – which causes a whole new set of chain reactions – and so it goes on forever – until it is absorbed – and once it is absorbed – as we have said – it remains – still moving – but moving within this absorption – until it is contacted by another energy particle – or simply by another energy of an extremely high frequency – which causes a whole new wave to start all over again – in new directions each time – as each time one energy absorbs another – its energy has to be accounted for when a new wave is created as a result of being contacted by a different energy.

Do you understand? Good.”

© Copyright 2001, 2007 2011 by Barbara Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved.