The Differences Between a Match and a Soul Mate
Because of the difficulty in most soul mate relationships in many cases you may discover a much easier relationship with another person. Yet, the eternal bond of the soul mate union will never disappear.
Can you love another person who is not your soul mate? Of course you can. However, that indescribable bond will still be kindling within the core of each of you.
Why Soul Mates Have Great Difficulty
There are two reasons this is a most difficult union.
1. The bond will never extinguish.
2. The growth is so vast some people cannot do it all within one lifetime.
This is the reason for the saying “Soul Mate Reunion.”
You have been united before and most likely may reunite again. It is best to leave it to fate—to your destiny for this to unfold.
Stop Waiting and Start Growing
If you are apart from your soul mate it feels like torture within to wait for you to reunite. You may or may not. Can you imagine spending every hour of every day waiting for the rose seeds you planted to become a bountiful rose garden? That is the type of torture I am speaking about. If you are together or apart your job is to grow into your highest and best self, not focus solely on the other calling you again or growing at the speed you would prefer.
Each of you came into this life to grow into your own highest and best self.
Your soul mate will trigger this growth far deeper and faster than any other relationship you ever have.
The reason you “know” how the other is thinking about you is picked up within your internal energy because you do share the energy of one soul.
Just like you can “feel” a gut feeling—it is energy communicated to you to make you aware of the higher guidance you are receiving.
The same is true for soul mates. You can be on the opposite side of the earth and still know and feel your soul mates energy.
Staying Together Forever
Eternal bonds do not always mean eternal togetherness in this lifetime. If this is the case for you when you think of your soul mate, send him or her transparent love and the best wishes for all good from the bottom of your heart without an agenda.
So many soul mates reunite after long and short periods apart because the bond, energy, the bliss can never be denied.
Think of it this way, his issues trigger your growth and your growth triggers him to grow.
A match made in heaven, yes, however living it out in Earth School is one tough job. Yet if you were not capable of such vast growth, and if your soul mate also was not determined to grow into his highest and best self then you would not have reunited at all.
Excerpt re-printed with permission from the book The Complete Guide to Your Soul Mate Relationship © Copyright 2014 by Barbara Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved Published by The Rose Group (December, 2014) ISBN-13: 978-0990813811.