Top 7 Soul Mate Questions and Answers


1. How do I know when I’ve met my Soul Mate?

2. If I’ve really met my soul mate, why is the relationship so difficult?
3. Why is it that many soul mates don’t stay together?
4. How can I turn the dynamics of this relationship around for lasting happiness?
5. Why do many soul mates continually return to each other?
6. How can we break old negative patterns between us?
7. If we’re apart, and miss each other, what will it take to make it work?


color-bliss1. How do I know when I’ve met my Soul Mate?
There will be an instantaneous familiarity, a recognition, and an innate understanding and connection from the beginning that cannot be described logically.

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  6. Hi Barbara! I really need some guidance in this issues because it has been driving my insane for 2 months up till now. I really don’t know how to move on until I find a closure. I’m 18 currently and have never dated anyone in my entire life. All the while, I never believe in this soul mate logic. I did come across quite a number of people who have confessed to me since age 12 till today but often the relationship stops there because I’m someone who is extremely cautious with who I’m going to go steady with and values love a lot, so I don’t want to get any devastating heartbreaks. But it is only till this day, the first time in my entire life in which my mind is SO SO caught with a guy that I’ve only seen for once.

    On the day before I first met him, I had the most comfortable bus ride sleep ever as I’m boarding the bus back home. It was the rejuvenating type of sleep that gives me the vigour once awake and I had a good feeling after that. It felt like some sort of sign telling me that something magical is going to happen. Climbing up the steep hill to reach my house, I saw a dark tall and musculine silhouette right at the other end of the hill. He looked like a middle-aged man from a far. I was scared. Afraid. Because at that time, there’s only me and this “old man” alone in the hill and nobody else. It was awkward. As I was walking up, he was walking down, and our distance are narrowing. I told myself to not look up and stare at him in order to avoid unnecessary stares from that stranger. But I can feel intense stares coming from him, as if he’s trying to stare right into my soul from that far distance even though we are not maintaining eye contact. As we move closer, I was shocked. He was actually a young man, shaved head dressed in black from top to bottom. I have to admit he was sexy. He’s like the type of guy I’ve always dreamed of. He’s face matches the sexy shaved head of his. In my country, people with shaved heads are in the army. So he is probably 19. Still, he continues to stare at me. I’m felt super uncomfortable and this level of intensity continue to increase when he’s only a metre away from me. Instantaneously I told myself that I should give him a death stare, which I’m absolutely good at because I’m the kind who convey a lot of emotions through my eyes, to scare him away so as to avoid uncomfortable stares when he’s going to brush past me. Here we go, 1,2, and 3! I lift my head up and peer right into his eyes as his brush beside me. From the angle of his eyes and face, turns out he really did stare at me continuously from the time I started walking at the end of the hill to meeting him here. The face. The hair. And the tough and sturdy body. He was really sexy. He was cute. Usually when I make eye-contact with handsome guys, I would get very uncomfortable and then forget about the experience hours later. But this is different. The way how he stared at me. I would never forget. His stare pierce straight through my heart as if he’s analysing my soul. Its as if we are suppose to be together. His handsome face made me feel extremely comfortable and I felt that to indulge myself in his eyes is the right thing to do. This sense of comfort made me feel that he is someone important to me. But all this was abruptly ended when my cautious instinct shot back up. I turned my head and walked in my direction. My mind was extremely fluttered and confused. It was then I felt the urge to turn around again. There, I saw his large and musculine back. Its the back that provides me with so much reassurance. I felt the extreme urge to run towards him and back hug him and kiss him on the cheeks even though I have completely no idea who this guy is and I have never experience such urge in my life. In the end I didn’t, because my cautious mind told me to be sensible. And like that, I never met him again. I don’t know what this means. I want a closure. I don’t think I’m able to move on in my life without finding this stranger again. People say there’s such thing as love at first sight. I don’t know, up till now I never believe in love at first sight but only lust at first sight. Perhaps I’m the second scenario? I don’t know.


    • Dear Jeanxx,

      I am more than happy to personally help you as I know firsthand how difficult this is. The best news is that it can be TRANSFORMED so you are free from the pain you are going through.
      Below is a link for a private session with me via phone.

      Should you register, during your session all of the information flows through me from God for you to bring you clarity, the higher perspective and most of all real transformation.

      If this is something you do not want there are so many articles and book excerpts on my website when you click on “Browse Relationships” you will see all of the soul mate content that is there free of charge.

      I hope this helps you!

      From my heart,


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  8. Howdy! This post couldn’t be written much better! Reading through this article reminds me of my previous roommate! He continually kept preaching about this. I am going to send this information to him. Fairly certain he’s going to have a good
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  9. Hi Barbara,

    Thanks for the article. It made me think that I may have met my soulmate, although I don’t think he knows. We met under circumstances that were not normal. A lot of things had to come into play for us to meet. That first meeting was inexplicable. I had these feelings that I couldn’t describe or explain that went beyond physical (actually, physically he’s not someone that I would normally be attracted to). It was something deeper than I had ever felt before, and I wondered what it was. We barely said much to each other, but it was like I was drawn to him like a magnet. I only see him about once a week, but when I do we talk and laugh like we’ve known each other for years. He has even told me that I’m easy to talk to. I’m a shy person, so I don’t open up to people easily or can’t look guys in the eye that I’m attracted to, but with him, I feel like I can tell him my whole life story and I can’t stop looking into his eyes. They draw me in and keep me there. It’s as if I have this confidence when he’s around. They only thing is I don’t know if he feels this connection or not or if we’re just meant to be friends or something more. I think he might even be seeing someone, but I just can’t shake these incredible feelings that I have for him. I think about him practically all the time. I just don’t know why he came into my life now, when I feel like my heart and soul is about to explode for him, yet he is unavailable or does not know.


    • Hi Katrice,
      I know all too well how you feel and am certain that he truly enjoys your company as much as you do.
      Stay focused on your own life so you are not off center. Keep pulling your conscious attention into what you are doing with your life and train your brain to only think of him when you are actually together – this will help you greatly to stay centered.
      Additionally, I am holding live seminars every Thursday night to help you and all with your relationships including Soul Mates. The seminars are interactive so I can help you and all live on the call.
      I hope this helps you, it’s my favorite part of my work and I hope to be able to help you personally as your experiences will help so many others at the same time.
      Keep being his friend, allow the future to unfold as it is meant to and TRUST what is meant to be WILL be.

      Sending you much love,


  10. Hi Barbara

    I love your post. It answered some if the questions I have about soulmates. I met someone a yr. ago. We’ve been on and off since then. During those times I stop the relationship 3 times already. i brought up the issue that I hardly see him. I told him that I want to see him on a regualr basis. He agrees but as time went by he couldn’t do it. I keep going back to him and he takes me back each time. I keep telling myself that I need to move on but it’s hard with him. I went to go see a physic recently. She told me that he is a soulmate in a different lifetime and that we were happy. I want that for myself. Is the best thing to do in this situation to leave him alone and let him figure out what he wants for himself? I talked to him about this before but didn’t get much of a response from him. I thought about not contacting him at all but I don’t want to lose him. I’m confuse about what to do.


    • Hi Kara,

      My honest guidance to you is to read the book Stop Being the String Along. That book saved me with the identical issue. Stop wasting your money on psychics as well. The very best thing you can do is move forward with your life, and view him with loving compassion while you leave him in your past. I know this is not what you want to hear, however, I want to see you empowered in a mutually fulfilling relationship, not strung along begging for love like I used to.

      Sending you much love,


  11. Hey Barbara, I am very happy to tell you I have met a wonderful man, and he treats me like a queen! He is open hearted, in touch with his feelings and I just know he is one of my soulmates. There is a strong connection and attraction that we both feel. We just went on our first proper date, and he literally lives across the road. This is fate! Been reading your book today, soulmate courtship with destiny. 🙂


  12. Great article.
    I’m 30 yrs old, a year ago met a guy who I’ve become close to over the last 9 months. We’ve spent some amazing times together, always on a ‘close friends with benefits’ basis, but so much more in actual fact. He’s young.. But we’ve been told by many that our souls are the same age, that we’ve known each other before.. He has a hold on me that I can’t explain.
    I sought guidance from some psychics recently, who all tell me that he is my future. That he has some growing to do, but when he returns from this ‘journey’ it will be for me.
    At the moment things are so all over the place.. He’s pushing me away, and its confusing.. It’s so at odds with how I feel, and how I make him feel. He fights it constantly, belittles our connection as if its nothing, but keeps coming back to me, no matter how hard we fight.

    I want to be patient, but its hard to ‘move on’ with my life.. I don’t want anyone else, when they’d only be a poor consolation prize.


  13. I feel so blessed to have stumbled across your blog. I would really love to ask for some advice. I met a man at my local café about a year and a half ago, he is the barista there. The moment I placed my order he stared into my eyes and I my stomach did an amazing back flip, I felt completely exposed as thought he was reading my thoughts, and I just wanted to keep staring. We barely said two words, I placed my order and that was that. I continued to go there every day, I could not shake the thought that I had just met the one, I also began having very intense thoughts about being with him, sharing a future with him and having a family with him- it was all very bizarre because we rarely spoke more than two words on each visit. These thoughts were not good because I was actually in another relationship. I made the decision to stop going to the cafe because I felt like I was betraying my boyfriend. Eventually my daydreams ceased.
    After a few months I started going again, I still felt that he was attractive but I told myself that the feelings were just one sided. In January this year, his fellow barista (and friend) told me that he had broken up with his girlfriend – I wasn’t even aware that he had one. It became clear that he (the original barista) was interested in me. I could not give anything in my response though because I had a boyfriend. I prayed on this. A week later, without effort or heart ache my partner of four years ended our relationship and I went our separate ways.
    I was so excited and ready for us (me and the barista) to finally be together. All the signs were there, the chemistry, the amazing eye contact and this connection that makes me feel like we are reading each other. His friend even quizzed me on my feelings about him and then asked me what I would say if he asked me out, and I indicated yes. He became more and more nervous around me and the question never came.
    Now, five months later my feeling are just as strong and I believe that he is aware of the connection between us too. I only see he him once a week now as he has another job. Another obstacle is that we both become so incredibly shy around one another that we can barely speak. I feel this unbearable need for us to start our life together and I’ve been trying to work up the courage to indicate that I’m interested, but I lose my nerve every time. I have been praying for an answer and really just trying to trust that everything will happen as it should, but I also know that the lord helps those who help themselves.
    Do you think that I should say something and risk making a fool of myself if he doesn’t feel the same (and I have imaged the whole connection) or should I just wait and trust that it will all unfold, as it should??


  14. I really enjoyed reading this article. It really answered every question I have about my relationship-or what was my relationship.
    I met my boyfriend-now ex (a week ago)- 10 years ago. It was an instant CLICK. i don’t know why, how, or when, but we managed to always be in each others lives. We never had mutual friends, or similar hang out spots, yet, we managed to stay friends-strictly platonic. Every time we hang out, we have an AMAZING time together. I love everything about him. HE stated he loves everything about me. I feel invincible when I’m with him. Yet, we recently broke up because he says that I am a total B*tch. Yes, I admit, i have my temper and i can be very blunt at times. However, that is who I am. That was how he met me, that was who he’s always loved. We’ve been dating since March 12′ and yes, we’ve had our break-ups but because of communication problems. I agree that we both have to grow, I have my flaws, he has his. But i believe I am a very rational person. Now, he’s saying that he’s done with me, everything I do bothers him, etc…
    I’m down. This was/is my best friend whom I love and have a STRONG connection with. I can’t imagine life without him, his friendship. He has a lot of resentment towards me and I feel bad I hurt him. I tried apologizing-didn’t work- he’s prideful.

    It’s been almost a week, since he left our home-yes we moved in together. I can’t seem to think straight, I miss him, I can’t concentrate etc…He really is my soul mate. I feel it. HE feels it. We’re in love. I even picked up meditating to help with my “anger issues”. He just lost all patience with me. He’s never ignored me, I feel lost. I just want him to come back. I don’t know how much time I can give him. Or maybe I’m just being selfish.


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    • Definitely get or download the book If God Hears Me, I Want an Answer!
      I do not “try to write” any of my content. If all flows THROUGH me via higher consciousness, sixth sense – literally from God.
      The process outlined in the book explains it ALL in a down to earth manner. There is NO special ability to this whatsoever.
      It is all of humanity’s birthright.
      Additionally there are live recorded seminars that you can download that are deep intensives to take you through the entire process.
      It is completely life changing. Never again will you have to struggle to try to figure out what to say!

      Godspeed to you!


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  18. Four years ago, freshman year of high school i met my boyfriend and we began dating literally two days after we met. we were in the same spanish class and we’d look at each other from across the room every day until one day we had an activity that paired a spanish vocab word with an english one, and he was my match. from that day on we were inseparable. we were each others’ first kiss, and we loved each other till the ends of the earth. my parents were always very against the relationship because they thought i was too young, and because of that we rarely got the opportunity to hang out outside of school. but the feelings that were there were more real than anything i had ever experienced. we had quite a few issues throughout our relationship with trust and such, and i grew to be a very controlling and demanding girlfriend, but he always put up with me. last september we began college together at the same university, and things were great. we were finally able to spend time with each other and confirmed that the love we had when we were apart was real. but about a month ago there was one fight we had where he just snapped and realized how awful of a girlfriend i had been, and from that day on we just kept fighting. until a week and a half ago when he ended things. both of us are very religious people and the only thing that is keeping me going right now is my faith. over the past couple of days I have recognized that I believe that God has brought us together for a higher purpose, whenever we’d have issues before i’d pray and all he’d tell me is that the reason why we’re in each others’ lives is not over yet. right now he wants to make this work, but he can’t foresee us being together in the future without God’s intervention bringing him to that realization. It hurts so bad because we had previously been talking marriage right after college, and my parents have finally given their permission for us to be together. i’m willing to give him all the time necessary, but whats troubling me the most right now is that i just want validation that in the end we’ll be together. i know i have a lot to change about myself and steps i need to take to be closer to God, i just want to have the peace of heart to know that in the end God will allow him to see that we’re meant to be together. he told me yesterday that he’d always be in love with me and that hurts the most knowing that he will always be in love with me, yet can’t see a future with me. i’m so confused and i just want things to work out in time.


    • Hi Dear Elizabeth,

      Did you ever do a writing asking God for the higher perspective and guidance that would flow into your mind and as the words flow in purely from God, you would write them in longhand on paper, just like taking dictation?
      This is so important to help you grow, receive the higher perspective, and especially to TRUST that what is meant to be WILL be, and it will always work out for your and his highest good.
      This process is detailed in several of my books, especially If God Hears Me, I Want an Answer! and being this is a soul mate issue it is also detailed (although much shorter than the above book) Soul Mates Courtship with Destiny.

      I can personally feel the energy and can assure you that YES, you will be together. You EACH have more growth to make (just like me and the rest of humanity) and this growth process that you BOTH go through will create a MUCH BETTER, MORE POSITIVE MARRIAGE than if you were together right now.

      Can you see how this applies? Trust, focus on your own personal growth and transformation and he needs to do the same, then when you DO reunite, the relationship will be at a much higher, more evolved level. I believe this is what you BOTH ultimately want.

      Keep your focus on God’s guidance within your mind to ease the growth process and give you sudden realizations about what needs to transform, and how.

      I send you lots of love and blessings,


  19. Hi Barbara i am actually really happy to have found this site and to have found similar cases like mine. I met this girl during my sophmore year in college, about 2 and a half years ago. I remember when i first saw her, i was waiting in my building outside of a classroom. When i first saw her it was like borders of black everywhere only opening up for view around her. Ive dated many girls hot to not and i have never experienced this and not to sound shallow but shes not a model by any means. Acouple days later im going to the same class, each class atleast at the begining of the semester ill jump around seats just to get a feel of th room. This particular day i had no idea what my choice would get me. I sat down, couple minutes later someone sits next to me and it was her! I couldnt beleive it i didnt even know she was in this class. I start off by asking her if she did the hw, this turns into the fastest growing relationship i can recall. Soon we were togethor always, she would bail on her best friends to be with me. Wed spend all nite and day together. If felt like i was with my wife, like she had always been my wife. I wanted to tell her but im not sure she was being truthful to herself. Shed always say oh were just friends outa know where but then always ended up cuddling with me and holding my hand. Im not very permiscuous n neither is she coming from n indian backround and culture. She eventually met my parents and i met hers even staying over her parents house. This just being within a month of us meeting eachother. She always said idk how but i feel like ive known you forever but we hadnt. But thats exactly how i felt. One nite i took her to my friends party we obviously got drunk but there was a altercation between me n her where she tried to make me jealous by dancing on another guy. I obviously got pissdd n stormed out the basement n out th front door. She followed me n we evetually startd to talk, now idk if its because she was drunk or what but this is the only time ive heard her say she has ne feelings for me. She said , ” im falling for you so fast and idk why”. I was drunk n so was she so i blew it off but the next morning it hit me, i had to let her know. When i did she said she didnt. I cant explain what that did to me, it felt as if i had lost everything. And ive been dumped as many times as anyone else but this was different i felt it inside. We stayed friends only because i cant bear not to see her but theres always the same tension that there was before just hanging in the air. I have dreams of her n i wake up with this feeling in my heart that i never feel when i dream of x girlfriends or neone or nething for that matter, almost like deja vu but more personal.Its been two years n ive dated, had sex, done drugs but nothing compares to just being near her. We never kissed or had sex so i cant explain why i felt like that towards her.We still go to the same school but i only see her sometimes but when we do we always have a blast, nothing like any girl
    Ive met. When these moments come
    I cherish it. This is the transition though, were graduating and shes moving to NC for a a job for two years. We live near eachother in virginia. But she wont be here. I want to tell her how i feel before she leaves, truthfully. Last time i just told her i likd her but didnt tell her how i really felt or when she said she didnt i was just like a dog who submit, no fight. I didnt bring up nething we had shared together to prove it to her. Thats what i want to change, i wanna tell her that i believe weve been together for lifetimes, that i feel
    It and dream it. I wanna know the truth. Please if you have any advice id love to hear it. I just cant imagine losing her till my next life when were both cats.
    Thanks Barbara


    • Hi Michael,

      YES, go ahead and tell her how you feel just like you wrote it in this post comment.
      She’s obviously really scared and/or she doesn’t want to wear her heart on her sleeve.
      Just like when Kate Middleton told her friends in college that living with Prince William was “no big deal” she held her own instead of acting desperate or planning her wedding at the time.
      Can you understand this?

      HONESTLY is the most important, bonding foundation of ANY relationship.
      You have nothing to lose by opening your heart to her.

      Additionally, please remember to keep your focus on YOUR own life and growing into your highest and best self.
      If she acts indifferent, go with the flow and say, “Okay” then kindly leave if you are in person or get off the phone – HAPPY AND ACCEPTING of her choices – out of friendship.

      Create your greatest life and if you see her, show her how HAPPY you are in your own life.
      This is a huge attraction for anyone a persona cares about.

      You are a very sincere soul. Trust that all will unfold as it is meant to. Focusing on your own life and creating the contributions you came into this life to make will help you have a stronger foundation within SELF so that you are not blown apart if her reaction is not what you wish it would be – and this holds true for any area of life.

      Have faith my friend, all is working out in perfect order.



  20. Hi Barbara, great blog glad I found this I recently split from which I believe to be my soulmate we met 6 months ago she moved in a house right opposite me she is 26 I am 32 pryer to her tuning up I had stayed single fir a year because I felt good thing come to those who wait! I have my offers but stayed true to my self! When I had the chance I introduced my self, not many words were exchanged just hi I’m Gareth and shake her hand we never really looked in to each others eyes at the time though a couple of weeks pryer to the introduction I drove past her and looked round and our eyes met..bang!! Wow what was that I asked myself! But because at the time I smoked cannabis I guess it override my intuition but something special was there no doubt! Which is why I made the effort when I had the chance to I introduced myself. A week or two later she put a Christmas card through my door ( in late November lol) saying hi it Lucy from over the road bit early for a Christmas card but a perfect way to pass on my number incase you want to invite me over for any party’s you might have haha love Lucy! Well the following Saturday I invited her over and well let say we got it on that night I guess we couldn’t help our selfs was like we new each other already and well it was a mind blowing experience and we were great for a while but over time through lack of communication she seemed to slip away from me and when that penny dropped I fell apart she still in the same town as me but all my efforts to sort things out seemed to make it worse! I’ve had the most difficult 10 days in my life I quit smoking the day it was over to ensure I was at my best I took a rose and a poem to her at work and left it with a colleague as I know she didn’t want to see me I got a txt shortly after and it was not good news it seemed to make things worse people told me not to do that but I couldn’t help myself she says she don’t know me and she’s made up her mind and I have let her be now! It’s crazy because we went from amazing to nothing in a flash she’s in my dreams every night and that’s what wakes me in a flash with each morning a horrible pain deep within my stomach! I’ve stayed strong and kept talking to friends all of which say give her time which I understand but god it’s hard as now I’ve stopped smoking I see so clearly! I sat outside a church today and wrote a txt but have not sent it because well I don’t want to make things worse! Here is what I have written…Hey Lucy I come in peace.. I want to thankyou for showing me what I was to blind to see in myself you have made me strong and now I communicate on a new level I have faced my fears and defeated my ego all because our souls touched! when I gaze in to your eyes I see myself..a powerful thing to say the least never have I felt such closeness in such small amount of time I feel our souls entwine when we embrace intense feelings of joy and knowing you, even if it appears we never met before! Was it by chance you end up opposite me or a sign from the divine that I am you and you are me? You see we were on the ball from the start with signs from the Devine like words from the tv or songs that ring bells in our hearts we both see these things up until our egos and fears start to creep out of us this where my communication shuts down..because of my fears of rejection or my second guessing of what your thinking I felt I in turn brought that out in you too ! Please this is not an attempt to get you back just me being totally honest to myself I’ve been a closed book for too long and now I feel released because its in you I have found myself! Just want you to know that I have always listened to you that at Christmas I proved I’ve never seen such joy on a face when I gave the first piece of jewellery I’ve ever handed to a girl! Not a gift to impress but a token of my sincerity to you! A heart and a key for you from me. My words I’ve spoken ment from my soul when you first lay with me I felt I’d known you all along?? Wow this is amazing but as all of us here we are on a journey of learning and ego and fear blurred the way for me! Well I don’t fear now and am not ashamed to bare my soul! It is a strength..a strength you evoked in me I just hope some how I can repay you! So with these coming words I hope I do “learn to forgive and you will be set free from your past demons” hope I haven’t upset you I would of come to you with all this but don’t want to frighten you or make you uncomfortable! No need to reply 🙂 Hope your well and health care is going great hope your mums feeling well too and remember you can tell me ANYTHING! As I don’t judge you you can do whatever you like in life I’ve always said that! my love has always been unconditional for you maybe that’s why you feel so comfortable in my arms maybe its why the world seems to stop in time when we are on that level!
    Do I hold on to this txt a little longer? Should I continue to be patient and wait for her to come if she ever does? I’m an intelligent boy with a great sense of intuition but making this decision is a very difficult one! I’ve a lot going for me in life only thing missing really is this piece of the puzzle she doesn’t really know how much I understand her and sending this message may well scare her and that worries me I will never see her again! I’m so sure she is my soul mate but as she is only 26 she might not be ready to understand how on earth I see these things I don’t want to come across as possessive nor do I want to make it seem I don’t give a monkeys! I know her father was agressive and so was her ex. Last thing I did was remove all photos I have if her and I’ve ignored her last txts as they just repeat the same thing ” I’ve made up my mind I’m sorry” she seems scared of something and I just can’t get to the bottom of it without feeling I’m making things worse!
    Do I wait for longer then send this? Do I wait till we gaze at each other by chance then instantly send the message without saying a word to her or just never send it?
    Many thanks Gareth x


    • Hi Gareth,

      I read your entire post very carefully and what I’m getting is to guide you to edit, to shorten it.

      Hey Lucy I respect and honor that you’ve made up your mind about me, this is the last text I’ll send you because I think you should know I want to thank you for showing me what I was to blind to see in myself you have made me strong and now I communicate on a new level I have faced my fears and defeated my ego all because our souls touched in our hearts we both see these things up until our egos and fears start to creep out of us this where my communication shuts down..because of my fears of rejection or my second guessing of what your thinking I felt I in turn brought that out in you too ! Please this is not an attempt to get you back just me being totally honest to myself I’ve been a closed book for too long and now I feel released because its in you I have found myself! Hope I haven’t upset you I would of come to you with all this but don’t want to frighten you or make you uncomfortable! No need to reply 🙂 Hope your well and health care is going great hope your mums feeling well too.

      This takes a lot of work for me to do. I would be honored to teach you HOW to receive the higher answers from God that work so perfectly and help you with all of this. I never replied to anyone before sharing that a Divine Guidance Private Consultation would make a massive difference for you. If you cannot afford the fee, I am happy to serve you to lower it to what you can afford. I don’t want to see you suffer any longer like I used to.

      I truly hope this helps you!


  21. Hi Barbara,

    I have a similar situation as another. I met my husband before high school and the chemistry was there in the air. I come from a dysfunctional family and he comes from a close knit family parents married for many years. He wasn’t generally my type at all but I felt so drawn to him. He made me feel validated and I relied on him emensly for everything. He made me believe in myself and I put him on a pedastool. He was my rock!
    We talked every night for many hours. I broke up with him because I didn’t think his family would accept this troubled girl for him. I told him I had mixed feelings. I started to date somebody else. And we reconnected when I was a senior. He graduated the prior year.
    Then after a couple months he started talking about going to college away and I started to have fear because I was falling for him and he would leave me so I pulled away and started to date a new guy.
    He was not the best for me but I clung to him for security. I just wanted to be loved.
    This guy was a dog and cheated and he wasn’t right for me but I clung anyways to him. After he cheated on me and treated me so horrible we broke up I reconnected with my soulmate but told myself we were just friends. I still was dating others too because I was afraid of being hurt. 1 month later the relationship was in full swing. He was my best friend and I told him everything.
    I feel like I needed to go through the jerks to make it work.
    We quickly moved in together and were in separable! Got engaged pregnant within 4 And 5 months of dating. 19 I just turned and him 20.
    Bought a house when our child was 10 months and married when she was 2.

    Life was stressful but I felt like he loved and cherished me. And I always worried if he saw the ugly inside of me he might leave because I hate me.

    Now 12 years married i feel as though things have eroded how he feels for me. the negativity that i had has worn off on him and made an imbalance in us. I am not sure if he has outgrown me and he got what his soul was supposed to learn and now he is done? I feel as though he has found someone else that he thinks about or another soulmate.
    He is so distant and emotionally not with me anymore.
    I just annoy him I feel. He denys it he just tells me that I am overbearing anymore and that I’ve never been like this before but it’s because I feel he only stays for our 2 children not because he loves me anymore like he used too.

    How can I give you more info?

    It would kill me if somebody else has his heart! How do i get it back after all the damage and trust and hurtful things have been said?



    • Dear Christina,

      I sooo feel for you. Just like how I used to feel – not good enough. Dear Heart you desperately need SELF LOVE!
      There are two books that will help you tremendously.

      Know Yourself
      and The Ultimate Guide to Self Love
      You can view them on my Book Page.

      I’m very happy you are both still together! This is a time for tremendous personal growth that will re-ignite your marriage when your husband sees his wife beaming with high self esteem, self love and self worth. That is a BIG turn on for ANY relationship.

      Let me guide you now, please STOP saying another negative thing about yourself to yourself or to anyone else about you.

      Any little insults your mind comes up with – immediately become aware of how bad it makes you feel, NOTICE what is going through your mind, and STOP those thoughts by taking a few deep breaths and tell yourself ANY good quality you know you have – such as you ARE a caring person.

      This takes conscious effort and no one on earth can change the thoughts in your mind for you, except you.

      The above two books will make a tremendous difference for you. (Psychologists and prisons use them for the people who are in need of help and personal transformation.)

      PICTURE your ideal self – glowing with self love. I know you will get there.

      Sending you much love,


  22. Also Barbara, I have just ordered your book “Soulmates Courtship With Destiny” on Amazon UK, I can’t wait for it to arrive so I can read it! I feel I was meant to find this site. 🙂 Thanks again x


  23. I hope you can help me…I was in a relationship with someone and they brought one of their workmates home that they talked about alot, when i turned around to say hello and our eyes met i was jolted in my seat, i could see the look in his eyes and the first thought in my head was ‘it’s you, i know you’
    i remembered him instantly we knew each other on a whole other level of knowing, i was happy, he was there and he talked about everything he was so spiritual and he was me. We saw each other a bit but always with my boyfriend around. I knew all along that I was going to be with him though and we didn’t need to talk about it to know it we communicated a different way. Then one day my boyfriend told me he had died and my heart broke, i cried anytime i could, i wrote down everything and I was devastated I went to his funeral and that was how it ended. We didn’t get a chance to be with each other. and to this day 8 years later if i think about it, i can’t it kills me. My life has moved on and i have another partner who i love but it’s not the same, i find it hard to be fully happy because i know the feeling i had with him and i want to feel like that again but i can’t because he’s gone. I always wonder why he had to go? where is he? what happens now? why was he only in my life for so little time? why couldn’t we be together? It doesn’t seem fair to have met him and known him for so little time then he gets taken away.


    • Hi Dear Lost,

      I feel your pain and I know of what you speak. I just released a new book that I believe will help you greatly.
      Your Loved One JUST Visited You! (Solace After the Passing of a Loved One

      Or you can download it wholesale (it’s the book of the month so it is only $7 US until April 15th.) on my book page.

      He may be “gone” in physical form but he’s nowhere near “gone” when it comes to you, and communicating with you. I have been through this firsthand on many occasions (not all were the love of my love – but earlier in my life I did love each one who passed on.

      I truly hope this gives you a new lease on life. This is why I released this book – please let me know if you have new experiences and if it helped you!

      Sending you much love and {{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}


  24. Barbara, after reading your ariticle honestly it brought tears to my eyes. I feel like this is all true and its been happening with me and my Morsal. Shes seriously my life, Barbara. We met online when she was 16 and i was 17. Dont know who she was what she was, but in a few months i was lost in her. Shes 25 and I 26 now….I dont even remember my life before I was 17… It was just one night i was doign my own thing online and this notification popped up that a girl named “Morsal” came online….. after that our lives changed………. problem is… i lied to her from the beginning…. i lied about my faith, my background, my everything – becausde iw as young and playful i didnt realize what iw as doing… but i fell in love with her and she fell in love with the person i told her i was…. few years later she found out. She left me and i was heartbroken.. i lost my belief in god n i finaly realized i did her wrong…… she was about to get engaged…but it was seriosuly a miracle.. she ran back to me crying..and i didnt want to ever let her go… our love feels like it grows everyday…. After that we have faced many issues, — she goes comes back goes comes back..its like a never ending cycle of hell and pain. But if it means beign with her at the end of it, i dont mind standing this pain…N i know why this is happening now….. m not being honest of some things.. but shes so good barbara, so kind so loyal so great that…. she will take all my bulls*it to be with me….. shes no less than my god to me…. no less. I always said this to her and she feels the same.. “if you drown i drown. If you starve, i starve”……its been years… i dont even remember eating before her…. I always see one sided love in relationships and i always wonder HOW people live in those things… i have never experianced this… we have always been on the same page since 2005!.. i just cant explain barbara….shes in my every prayer..i think of her day and night. shes all thats on my mind. people think we r both pathetic and crazy……and.. when she walks away, i stop living inside. my goals dreams all seem to dissapear.. m a totally different person. its as if she controls my every breath… and still when she walks away my first worry and source of pain is that shes feelingt he exact same way.. shes hurt.. i dont care for myself but SHES hurting. i love her so much that even the word love feels too small.. lol i love her so much m in tears just typing this to you.


    • Dear Millad,

      I know all too well of all you are saying – this is an extremely common theme in soul mate twin flame unions.
      If you want to check out my new book Soul Mates Courtship with Destiny you may feel as if you are reading about you on the pages.

      You’ve got to grow – and live – for you.
      She can be a part of your universe, but the deepest pain you feel must come to the surface and then released.
      This can only be done by focusing on your own life – why you are here and what you are here to contribute
      to making our world a better place. It all starts within you.

      Share your honest feelings with her.
      Share what is in your heart and soul.

      If for any reason she needs to stay apart, realize that this can be a divine opportunity for each of you to grow and learn, to evolve and to get out of the high/low cycle.

      I send you much love and many blessings!


  25. Hi Barbara,
    I had been going out with this guy for a year, he is 21 and I am 27. When I met him I felt this deep connection when I looked into his eyes, I felt he connected with my soul. We have had a hard year, constantly arguing over things, we communicated really well and always worked through things. We went to see an angel reader together just 2 months ago and she told us we were soul mates. Recently however lots of issues that we thought had been sorted kept coming back up and he told me that he wanted to go on holidays with this other girl who is a great friend of his who told him she loved him only 2 months ago. He didn’t understand when I said I was really unhappy about this. He told me he wouldn’t cheat but it was more the fact he didn’t respect or was aware of the boundaries in the relationship. I had to listen to my heart and even though I love him I had to set him free and just let him grow otherwise it would be spiralling round in a circle. I realised that if I just allowed him to treat me like that then I was doing an injustice to my true self and I have been told that I came into this life with a wounded heart from a past life. I have come so far since I have been in this relationship, at 27 this was my first real one as I could not commit before. I love him so much but he doesn’t understand that his decisions have consequences on our relationship. I know we must just move forward now and I wish him all the love so he can reach his highest self and I can reach mine, I am truly hoping that time apart will help us learn our lessons and eventually if it’s God’s will that we will return to eachother as he is my bestfriend and I never felt this before. Have you any advice? Thanks xxx


    • Dear Blessed,

      You truly did the right thing. As you allow him to move forward you, too can do the same by placing all of your focus on your own life and your life purpose. This will alleviate any heartache. Remember if you begin to feel sad, notice what thoughts are going through your mind. If you find you are thinking about him and the past, take a few deep breaths, place your focus on anything in front of you, a chair, a window, your hand – and breathe to center yourself in this NOW moment. This will quickly transform any hurt feelings as you continuously focus on right NOW. As time goes on, your focus will continue to be in the now moment, and no longer in the past. You are here to do great things. Even sharing about your experiences can be of tremendous benefit to others.

      Sending you much love,


    • Hi Barbara,
      Your story really moved me and brought a tear to my eye. I feel I have to share that I am in a somewhat similar situation – I met a man that I truly believe is my soulmate. The second I looked into his eyes I felt a connection and my heart thumped so hard and I had never felt that way about anyone. But the timing was wrong, he wants to travel with his best friend – he went off for 6 months with a female friend. I didn’t have a chance to have a relationship with him. I just know deep inside he is my soulmate, perhaps even my twin flame. We have so much in common it’s uncanny. I have chosen to move on with my life and open my heart to someone else. I’m too young to be wasting time on someone who is offering me nothing. I truly feel for you, and trust me when I say that your soulmate will come back to you either in this lifetime or afterwards, no matter what. Soulmates are connected forever and can never truly be separated. God bless and love and light to you 🙂 xx


      • Dear Shining,

        When you wrote,

        I have chosen to move on with my life and open my heart to someone else. I’m too young to be wasting time on someone who is offering me nothing.

        I was so happy for you to see that!

        And when you wrote,

        I truly feel for you, and trust me when I say that your soulmate will come back to you either in this lifetime or afterwards, no matter what. Soulmates are connected forever and can never truly be separated.

        I know the connection will always remain, however, I am soooo happily married to a man who treats me like a QUEEN! Not one harsh word to me, ever! Zero abuse. Pure loving communication, and the deepest most trusting friendship. I feel so blessed to be with him that I no longer desire to be with the soul mate I spent years crying over.

        He was (unknowingly) a huge catalyst for all of the work I do. However, That push/pull, here today – gone tomorrow cycle was so unhealthy. We loved each other very much and I wish him the best life. I’m too happy now to give up all I ever wanted in a man every quality money can’t buy. This is what I wish for YOU, and I am certain you WILL have this in your life — just when you least expect it!

        Sending you much love,


  26. I was/am a skeptical person when it comes down to “soul mates.” But until recently I am starting to believe there are such things. I met my friend when we were in high school, we were both 14. He was one grade ahead of me, he wasn’t my type at all. Being the typical high school boy, he was a jerk. We were friends in high school, I say we weren’t that great of friends but he insist we were. After he graduate we lost touch until 2009. We reconnected again thanks to Facebook, but still it was the occasional “hey how are?”
    About 6 months ago, I changed a picture on my FB to something Halloweenish bc it was Halloween time, I believe it was something from Silence of the Lambs, he sent me a message and said something along the lines of “you are a beautiful person and I care about you so much, please don’t put pictures like that up.”
    One dumb picture and we have been in constant contact. He lives out of state, only 45 minutes away by plane. We decided to meet up a month after that picture debacle, his parents still live in the same state as me.
    When we met up for the first time, I was a giddy school girl, I remember him hugging me, it wasn’t a typical a hug, he held me tight and squeezed me. It was like as if our souls were reuniting.
    I feel like, he has said it to, that we have known each other before, whether past lives are real or not. When we first met up since we are now in our early 30’s, we caught up on the missing years and since we are more mature, we talked about our childhood. I had some stuff happen to me when I was growing up, as I told him, he cried. He was upset for the pain that I had to go through and how he couldn’t protect me from it.
    I’ve never had a male cry like that in front of me. I didn’t know how to react, so I just reassured him, that it’s okay.
    We are trying to be only friends, but like I said, it’s so natural for us to get super close, he really is my best friend, I have never trusted anybody as much as I trust him, never have opened up to anyone as much as him and vice versa.
    There is this intense aurora that is around us, this energy that is indescribable. I feel like we have known each other forever and that he is my true love.
    But with all that, it’s almost scary. Not a bad scary, but how crazy and natural it is to become so close to someone. Sometimes it gets to the point, where he says he needs space but then a day later he comes back and it’s like nothing has happened and we pick up right where we left off.
    We both are in love with each other, love like not an ordinary love, but love in words I can’t describe. He needs to stay where he is for now because of work and I am finishing up my graduate degree where I am.
    A few days ago, it was going amazing, but I notice when his emotions and feelings become overwhelming, he gets scared.
    These emotions and feelings are both something we have never experienced before, so I get it, or I try to, just don’t get why if we are “soul mates” why he needs space?
    Maybe we aren’t “soul mates?”


    • Dear Taylor,

      I believe you are soul mates. I used to get the “I need space” line a lot. He’s just scared. Such closeness can be scary!
      Check out the book Soul Mates Courtship with Destiny if you feel the nudge to. It has a lot of what you are speaking about!

      Sending you much love,


  27. Hi Dr. Barbara Rose,
    I have read so many books so far, to find the meaning of a relationship I had three years ago . We shared a kind of bond that is beyond any words( or it is what I think).
    It was first on phone and later we met. But both of us were thinking – you definitely don’t look like my dream person. You see, I come from a troubled family and was in a turmoil of relationships one right of the other until I met him. It was like magic. Even though I was in relationship with someone else at that time, . I didnt know why but I constantly felt the need of being near him. He dictated everything in my life .I became so dependent on him. I felt for the first time self- respect and self- worth only because of the image he created of me. There was this unspoken tension between us. And one day it broke and became physical for atleast three months. We didn’t know the difference between a day or a night nor did I understand why is this happening. We couldn’t stop. But then gradually he tried to push me away and said things aren’t supposed to be so complicated and that we should take time off and test the relationship if we still feel that way. I got so worried and after three months of not talking or seeing each other , he calls and says – its over!!
    I was devastated. Why does someone deny something so beautiful and extraordinary in one’life?? I went onto believe that may be he just took advantage of my vulnerability and that I was deceived in a very unimaginable way. I was outraged and thought I must never depend on any person.I don’t really remember my life before I met him. And took me a great deal of energy and time to come out.
    But there was not a single day that went by , without thinking of him. I tried hard to hate him. And found myself in another relationship after a three months. But this time – I actually chose someone who looks almost like him. Though he is a good person by heart, I keep fighting him because somewhere deep down I keep comparing them and demand more of him.
    I am trying hard for three years now, to make it work with the new person, when out of nowhere , my ex calls me and says that it was his mistake to let go of me and that he was sorry. REALLY??? After, three years?? At first I was reluctant to even speak with him. I thought I might end up in tears. But. I took courage and spoke- we were on phone for 5 hours, but barely spoke. My heart was fluttering. And that was some kind of trance for me. I just opened up and told him how I feel for him even though he has left me after three years. But he has not admitted to feel anything. WHY? I asked him whether three years of separation has made it feel any difference for me. He refused to admit to anything. When I forced him to answer, he just said-” I won’t give you any stupid confirmations or re- assurance to you “. What does that even mean??
    Is he really my soulmate? Or is he just another man who is just trying to take advantage of my vulnerability? Why did he contact me agin when he doesn’t want to give any explanation. I felt quite embarrassed to bare open my feelings like that. I just told him never to contact me again until he admits to what he exactly feels of me. Have I done the right thing??


  28. whoah this blog is great i love reading your articles. Stay up the good work!
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  29. I met this guy, about 2 and a half years ago. From the moment we started hanging out we were inseparable. I was dating this other guy at the time, whom I had been chasing around like a lost puppy. Long story short, my heart was with this other guy and I felt bad for the guy I had been chasing bc I had wanted just that for so long. So I pursued the relationship and three months later I was pregnant. This other guy(my soul mate) went his own way and I never stopped thinking about him. When things with my sons father got toxic I found myself trying to find my soul mate. He had had a daughter while we were apart as well. I found him and when we reunited it was euphoria. We couldn’t be away from each other. We sacrificed so much though as well. Over time our relationship grew toxic and we had trust issues and he was controlling, but I really felt that he was just so scared of losing the only thing he truly loved. I need advice. We both have drug and alcohol problems and when we have been intoxicated he has physically put hands on me and me to him as well.. Obviously this is not okay. I just don’t know what to think. I ask myself was he even true to me? And after all that has happened with him and our fights he’s still all I can think about..and I know he’s thinking about me too . I just wish it could work. I wish we didn’t mess everything up. We hate ourselves for it. I believe this time apart was meant to happen for us to grow, I don’t think I’d be thinking on such a level I am now if it wasn’t for him. Feeling lost.


  30. Hi Barbara,

    I was introduced to this guy, it took over two years for us to finally meet. During this two year time frame I felt from the second I saw his photo online a deep connection, like no one I have ever seen before. Like I was drawn by a spiritual connection to really meet and get to know this guy. It’s like I felt something was there and I needed to meet him. I would see signs along the way, his name on signs continuously and he just kept being mentioned in my life as if a reason he needed to be there? I finally did meet him and when we did he was very shy and seemed distant and like he wanted nothing to do with me. Our conversations were kinda bland and he was constantly shy to start the conversation, when we talked I made the conversations but he gave one worded answers and such. As time progressed as a singer, he sang a song for me and looked deeply into my eyes as he sang it. He never has asked me to go anywhere with him until after that night he invited me out. He smirked his face with a flirty look and said meet me at this event. When I showed up I thought he would be super excited to see me and he said not word. He was shy again and I knew he just sang a song to me and invited me out that we were getting somewhere and when I showed up he was shy again and had no words to say. when he’s at a table near me, he’ll sit anywhere but near me, and he’ll look at everyone at the table but me. Am I intimidating him or is he completely not interested in me? I feel like he’s unknowingly as a shy person playing games? Then he at times would switch and when a person at our table asked him a question, he would only look and answer me. this was rare but it happened a few times. I ended up telling him before he left back to his home state I liked him and thought this was fate and he was confused and denied everything and looked down and said he’s kinda seeing someone back home when clearly he told us before that and everyone a week ago he wasn’t. Why would he deny his feelings for me if he even had any at all? He shot down any possibilities of liking me, and said I was a turn off for liking him starting off online. I still felt he was a God sent and signs led me to him. Do you think he’s my soulmate and he’ll ever return one day? I said things to him that helped him grow as a person spiritually and he took it offensively but as soulmates I believe one brings out the better and growth of the other person. I felt I hit his weak spots and he couldn’t handle anything I was saying to him.


  31. Help! Last year I met my soulmate! It has been confirmed by 3 different psychics. But, after 6 months of bliss we have separated cause we are both married with children and the spouses are going crazy and we live around the corner from each other. I have been happily married 25 years! This is her 2nd marriage and she is unhappy! But I can’t be with my wife any longer after meeting my soul mate. It is so sad! I am 100% convinced that we met to fix and heal each other, turns out we have incarnated again and again to work out the guilt, rejection, other issues etc and get the relationship right. And this is the lifetime to do it. But my soulmate is running from me cause of her marriage and kids. Even though she is not happy! Its been 6 months since we separated. I am trying to move on and work on myself and my issues. But what happens when soulmates meet while married, you know you are supposed to be together but its going to hurt a lot of people and one person will stop at nothing now to be together but the other runs. What do I do? What can I do? I guess nothing. Can’t wait, have to live my life but I know we are going to end up together in a year or 3 or whenever. Have you seen situations like this with soulmates being in such a complicated marriage with kids environment and then end up being together?


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  34. My life has changed greatly in the passed few days. I started noticing I’m not as happy as I could be with my current girlfriend. And out of the blue my high school sweet heart contacted me. She always seems to pop into my life at random points. And we always fall back in love for that time we are together. We first broke up when I joined the navy almost 10 years ago. And every couple years we seemed to find away to get back in touch. Now I have moved back to my home town and I contacted her to let her know I was home. It took a year for her to contact me back. From the moment we saw each other this time the feelings started flowing like the Mississippi River. Currently we are both in relationships but we aren’t happy. We are afraid to get back together though. She tells me about her feelings towards me and she even says how she cries when she thinks about me. I caught myself doing the same. Even the scent of her on my pillow makes me get such vivid images of her. I don’t know what to do. I’m so confused.


  35. hi,
    i am so thankful i found this website!
    i also want to ask something, im not certain if this guy i love is my soulmate
    me n him met at my grandmothers bc he worked for them. well he n i wonder up hanging out that whole day! n it was the most amazing day i ever had. i eventually moved to my grandmothers house. n every morning as i waited for the bus he would come out side n wait with me. we ended up dating it only lasted for a week or so. but we remained friends. when ever he would c me out side he would go outside his house n play basketball n he would bounce the ball so loud so i would hear it down the road. n i would always go over to talk to him


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  38. Dear Barbara Rose,

    I enjoyed your article on Soul Mates.

    I met a gentleman last year, who I will call Lee, through a mutual acquaintance who went on and on about this guy. He stated that Lee and I talked about similar subjects such as the esoteric sciences and that we should meet. He also talked about how talented Lee was.

    According to my friend, Lee was a visual artist who could paint, sculpt and sing as well. He talked about this guy so much, and with so much reverence, until, just to shut him up, I consented to meet his friend by telephone. I thought he was my twin flame as we talked for eight hours our first conversation. And every call thereafter was a marathon. After a month, we finally met and there was no chemistry on my part.

    We continued to talk over the phone. We had spats between us and finally had extended periods where we did not communicate. I said some unkind things to him. Our mutual friend stated that Lee was through with me as I had hit him below the belt. Fine, I said because I didn’t care.

    A few months passed and I began to miss Lee. I thought about how cruel I had been and tried to contact him. He did not return my phone call.

    Finally, I met with our friend on another matter, and decided that since we were near Lee’s residence, that we pay him a visit. My friend gladly obliged and decided to tell Lee that he wanted him to meet this beautiful young lady, just to get him to agree to come downstairs.

    To shorten the story Lee came downstairs to greet our mutual as I stood to the side afraid that he might lash out at me. Instead, he turned and looked at me with the most beautiful smile. Although the sun was shining brightly, around Lee’s head was a halo. The rest of the scene was surreal. I was hypnotized by him as I stood transfixed by his warm gaze. There was so much passion between us until it was orgasmic. Later, he went on to tell me that he felt the same way.

    He had been married for forty years and told me later, that he never experience anything like that with his wife. Since that day, we have been together. We have had some disagreements, but we are trying to work through them.

    I do have a deep secret about myself that I had held off discussing with him because of fear of rejection. However, your article is steering me to be open about this situation and hope for the best.

    Thank you, and God Bless



    • Hi Jen,
      In a loving way from my heart I had to laugh when I read about how he said he was through with you. I cannot count how many hundreds of times me and my soul mate said the same thing. But when we were in each others lives we kept returning to each other. You are under no obligation to share any aspect of your past with him or anyone as it has (I assume) nothing to do with him and your current relationship. If it DOES have to do with your relationship, then do share from your heart. Back then you were learning and growing – as we all are and were. Some things are irrelevant to the current situation and you are not on a witness stand or in a confession booth, as a result some things are better to leave in the past. But go with your gut about this one.
      If you know how to do a writing to God and ask for Divine guidance about what to say and not to say, this is the purest way for you to know exactly what to say if anything at all.
      If you do9n’t know this process PLEASE download the book If God Hears Me, I Want an Answer! It will teach you this whole process and has awakened the higher consciousness of countless people globally. This is NOT about a book sale, I just want you to know how to be guided by the highest source in the universe where you always receive the answers and guidance you need 24/7 and can never, ever go wrong.
      If you want to hear about this process there is a four session deep intensive that was recorded live that shares every aspect of this process.
      Sometimes we are not sure about the best way to go concerning any aspect of our lives – God has never steered me wrong or anyone globally who has awakened their higher consciousness. I only urge you to do this from my heart. Read what people share at the top of the main menu to see what people from around the world share about this. Soon I will be giving a free weekly class to answer people’s personal questions about this process and will be holding a 5 week intensive that is live and personal to help as many people as possible.
      I send you all my love and care. ASK for divine guidance about this and anything weighing on your heart and mind and you WILL receive it – this is our birthright, not some sort of special ability.

      From my heart,


      • Dear Dr. Barbara Rose,

        I wrote the above letter to you about the person known as Lee. Since that time, he and I have parted ways several times, only to be brought back together by circumstances beyond our control. It felt like insanity.

        I spent Christmas and New Years Eve in emotional turmoil and decided to spiritually release him once and for all. One treatment or two usually does the trick with releasing, but he had etched his way into my heart, so I was doing it as long as it took.

        Somehow, we got back together again. We were like two junkies who couldn’t kick our drug addiction-each other. I ask God why were we being thrown back together for more torture. That is when I read your article about soul mate relationships.

        We had some trust issues that kept taking us back to square one. I was determined after reading your article to either move past our problems and find our purpose together or discontinue or relationship. So far, your information has proven to be invaluable. Lee has opened up to me about things that grid locked us and so have I. It has not been easy because he is somewhat stubborn. Sometimes I have moments when I panic an feel that we do not have a future together. Other times, I see smooth sailing. Only time will tell.

        Thank you, for a wonderful article.



        • Dear Jen,

          I can’t tell you how much your letter means to me. To know this work is truly making a difference is priceless.
          One thing I used to do when I brought through articles to help me and others with the issues at hand was to log on to my own website and re-read what I brought through until it was fully integrated.
          That helped me so much!
          I’m sooo happy for you and Lee. Once the (close to impossible open communication due to fear) is opened, you will both be able to really enjoy each others growth! I honestly get a “smooth sailing” feeling, with minor misunderstandings that can easily be cleared up by speaking from the heart. Always speak the real truth from your heart – then he will, too.

          With much love and gratitude,


  39. Great article! Thank you! How about if you meet your soul mate purely by chance when both of you are already married? You actually both got married the same year. He would leave his wife, but you would not leave your husband. Meanwhile, he leaves a door open for a future connection. Is this possible? Have you seen this happen with soul mates? They were not able to be together when they met, but got together at a point in the future. I had read that the karma of the marriage must be lived out first to open the way for such an occurrence to take place. Does this sound familiar?


    • Hi Zoe, Yes, this sounds very familiar. If someone does not want to leave their husband when they feel such a strong soul level bond with their soul mate, they need to ask themselves why.
      Staying in a marital union that is not fulfilling your needs on all levels means that you are not fulfilling your own needs. Sacrifice is not necessary – only true love is.


      • I totaly agree, Barbara. My soul mate and I met when I was 19 years old, through a series of events we parted and met back up when I was 40 (2008). We were both married and agreed to divorce, but so far I’ve been the only one divorced because he’s been afraid to because of his children…so even though we’ve lived together for the past four years we have had many problems arising from this refusal to divorce. He has walked out on me many times only to return…he finally did file the divorce last week, but I’m still concerned that he feels sad about it even though his wife definitely wasn’t meeting all his needs nor fulfilling him personally…it is only for the kids. I just keep faith that this will work because he is definitely my soul mate…the one who causes my heart to sing every single day.


  40. I think I’ve found my soul mate. But, its not my fiancee, its my preacher. I love my fiancee very much, but I cant stop thinking about Matt! It feels as if im drawn to him


    • Hi Carol,

      Is your preacher interested in a relationship with you? Is he single and not in a relationship with anyone else?
      Are you close friends with him?
      The period of engagement is when you are evaluating whether or not you want to spend the rest of your life with that person – Matt.
      If you don’t then it’s vital for you to be honest and not go further into a marriage when your heart is with someone else.
      Alternatively, make sure you know where you stand with your preacher so you don’t leave Matt and wind up in String Along Valley – wanting someone who is not wanting the same kind of relationship. That creates soul crushing heartache. Believe me, I lived it for many years.
      Just get really clear on what IS NOW and base your decisions on that. Never chase a fantasy and never get emotionally stuck on someone who is not wanting the same kind of relationship you want with him.
      I really hope this helps you!


  41. I was told that you wrote a book called “Concept of a Soul Mate.” I wanted to know where I can find this book or at least read parts of it or something. Please let me know as this is at utmost of importance. I need to know what Im suppose to do when you find your soulmate and help eachother out because neither one of us has experienced this before


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