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How Miracles are Created

Posted by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD BornToInspire on May 16, 2012 in Browse Answers from God, Browse Spirituality

Miracles

By Barbara Rose, PhD

There is a calling from humanity coming from every corner of the globe. This calling is felt in the higher dimensions as pleas and feelings of desperation are felt from all who wish for a miracle in their life.

Here is your answer as to exactly how miracles are created so you can learn how to bring them about in your life.

Miracles Are All Energy

Every plea and request that you have in your life is filled with energy.

When you feel afraid, what you are actually doing is surrounding yourself with a sort of blanket that covers up your ability to create a miracle.

On the other hand, when you have perfect faith that all you need or wish to unfold will, in fact, do so – then you have released the negativity and have allowed the Divine to work in your life in so many ways you cannot see with your 5 senses – and yet – the Divine is active in your life at all times.

What is required of you to manifest a miracle in your life is to ask for Divine assistance and at the same time, remember any past event where a “miracle” came about.

What this will do is show you from your ego’s fearful personality level that if it happened in the past, it can happen again NOW!

How the Divine Works in Your Life

You are surrounded at all times and connected at all times to your Higher Self, your Over Soul, God, All That Is, Divine Source, as well as Angels who have been assigned to you to bring about all of the good you wish to manifest.

The key to this is perfect TRUST.

Trust is crucial – because this alleviates the negative energy, & makes room for the positive to enter.

Prayer must be done on a level of gratitude as trust, as opposed to begging.

You are a Divine expression of God, or whatever name you give to your Highest source of wisdom and guidance. Therefore, there is no need to beg – because you are as Divine as those to whom you pray!

How Miracles Take Shape

There are many people who will connect to your energy, either positive, or negative, as the universe is completely neutral.

So when your focus is on trust and faith – you WILL attract those of a like energy into your life, and so you may call it a “miracle” however, what it actually is, is your intention, and your energy & trust combined that has lifted to a higher & more positive vibration, where you do attract exactly what you need.

How Your Help Creates Miracles for Others

The best thing you can do for anyone with whom you have a deep concern is to picture their miracle coming about and focus on this as if it were already complete.

By sending this positive energy to this person, or group of people, what you are doing is adding to the positive energy that surrounds them, and their positive energy is amplified, and so “miracles” are thus speeded up.

We are all one. There is not one Soul on Earth that does not matter. There is not one Soul that cannot rise from the depths of despair, to the heights of love, prosperity, health, and a life that is a beacon of hope for others.

Your Role Is Crucial

You play much more of a role in manifesting miracles than you may realize.

Pray, if you wish to, and see it as complete if that is your desire, and most of all, align with your Higher Self to co-create the miracles that you wish to bring about both for yourself and all others.

This, my dear children is how all of humanity will one day live. All will co-create with all, and life on Earth will be a daily, moment-by-moment miracle.

The miracle is in the moment – THIS moment – that is where the intention is set, and that is when it is made manifest, and then, you can simply trust that it is in fact, on its way.

Most of all ~ believe!
Believe

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Excerpt Know Yourself: A Woman’s Guide to Wholeness, Radiance & Supreme Confidence

Posted by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD BornToInspire on May 16, 2012 in Barbara's Books, Browse Pesonal Growth

Your LifeKnow YourselfBy Barbara Rose, PhD

The Preteen Years

We must now look at our preteen years–from ages nine through twelve–in order to understand fully who we are.

During those years, we learned to compare ourselves to others, and those comparisons might still be evident to this day.

Our preteen years were filled with innocence and mystery.

We were searching for our own identity when we began to look at our friends, even if only to see what they were doing.

We wondered what it would be like to have a boyfriend. Perhaps you experienced your first pang of liking a boy during this time–or perhaps you noticed that you were beginning to bloom physically while your psyche remained innocent.

You may have gone through betrayal on the physical level, and you may have had experiences that you were not ready for on the psychological level.

During this time, we most often pull the veil of knowing over our eyes. During this time, we typically know deep inside what feels true for us, and yet we might succumb to peer pressure or parental pressure to cover up our spiritual gifts because the grown-ups who surround us might not understand. Many times, we go along, even if it doesn’t feel true for us inside. Sometimes adults force us to go along; we are given no choice and are too young to be able to do anything about it. At times, just to be accepted, we stifle or push down what we feel inside to be our truth. Other times, we might be punished if we disobey.

Sometimes we feel as if we’re living with and among other people to whom we truly cannot relate or share ourselves with. As we begin to look around us, we see and feel everything that we can either identify with or not.

My preteen years were confusing: I had a woman’s body and a child’s mind, with a feeling of being different somehow, different in a way that I could not define in words.

I looked around me and often felt I didn’t belong.

I tried to belong because I wanted to fit in, and perhaps you tried to fit in, too.

Fit into what?

Social acceptance. Peer acceptance. Parental acceptance.

We were trying in myriad ways to gain acceptance from the outside because we did not fully know who we were from the inside.

We may have tried to get good grades in school, or to look a certain way. But no matter what we tried, that sense of belonging was based on something outside of us rather than on who we were within.

You and I had talents and gifts that might have been stifled or honored. But no matter how much we were applauded or scolded, our search for inner knowing was stunted during these years–because we could not identify with soul wisdom on the outside. And I am sure you will agree that we could rarely talk about it to those in our lives at that time.

How were we supposed to know ourselves during our preteen years? By our surroundings and how we felt in our environment. During those years of inner innocence, we only knew if we felt safe and honored, or unsafe and dishonored.

Our achievements may have been wonderful or paltry–but we were never taught to honor our own authentic power. We were taught to give it away. And we were taught to measure our worth by the grades we received, the way we looked, the ribbons we won, or whether we obeyed our parents. Our worth was all conditional.

So we were conditioned to tiptoe around outer conditions to get a greater sense of who we were, and our golden moments were when we received outer approval or validation.

Our most treacherous moments occurred when we forsook our own identity or truth to gain acceptance from the outside. These betrayals remained within our cellular memories for quite a number of years.

We learned adaptation. But we never learned self-honor. We learned to listen to everyone other than ourselves.

We learned to obey what others said as opposed to what was true for us. We watched TV and saw values portrayed that were the opposite of our reality. We longed for what was on TV, where the children were honored. Were you honored? At times I was, and at times I wasn’t. Like me, you learned to adapt to a constant sea of conditioned responses in order to feel safe, secure, accepted, and honored.

You may have been honored for certain behaviors that to this day you call your strengths. You may have been dishonored for other behaviors, and you may still be grappling with how to grow beyond whatever part of yourself you have disowned.

It is vital for you to remember that we incarnated into this life to be all we came here to be. You do have a purpose, and yet during your preteen years you might never have been honored for your true inner gifts. You may have learned to stifle your greatest talents and attributes in order to keep the adults in your life feeling secure with the limited wisdom they may have had about you. Many adults might have felt threatened by your special traits. Perhaps they didn’t know how to relate to you.

Years ago, many people believed that children were at their best when they were quiet. It was said that children should be seen but not heard. As a result, few of us were taught to speak out and rock the boat! Few of us were taught to prepare for a life in which self-sufficiency, creativity, spiritual gifts, independence, and self-expression would be honored.

We were told to believe in the Cinderella theory, and to validate our worth from the outside in–and that alone has taken decades of pain to overcome.

You may not have overcome it yet–but you are about to.

Were you praised for being the real you when you were a preteen? I would venture to say you were praised for listening, or obeying, and perhaps for a talent or two that your family liked to see.

If you belong to the vast majority of women who were raised to believe in everything other than the core of who they are, you most likely find it quite difficult to learn how to know yourself when you were mostly praised for obeying others.

This is the hallmark of forgetfulness among women. You forgot who you were while you were busy looking for ways to gain acceptance from those around you. Your wise soul could not relate to those people and circumstances, and perhaps you had few if any people you could share your truest feelings with–so they, too, became lost.

How can you know yourself when you can’t talk about your innermost feelings with the people around you?

How can you know yourself when you are held to a standard of acceptance based solely on your observed actions or performance? Did anyone ever ask you to honor the wisdom of your soul?

I doubt that they did–because they had also forgotten the wisdom of their own souls as they played out the roles taught to them based on the morals and beliefs of the society in which they were raised.

Many of us were not raised in a society that appreciated lightworkers. They are people (and you may be one of them) with spiritual gifts who openly share and express those gifts in order to help others awaken and evolve in our world. Many times their spiritual gifts are not openly received, and they are negatively labeled as “New Age fruitcakes.” You may be a highly evolved soul stifled in a spiritual closet. You may have wisdom within you that is so vast. And at the same time you may have next to nobody with whom you can relate or share, nobody you can even learn from.

This book is in your hands because you want to reclaim your radiance. You want glowing confidence. Everything you want is everything you’ve already got on the inside. I take you on this journey through your life so you can see why you may not feel so radiant or whole or confident.

It is because the confidence you had when you were born was largely squelched during your younger years, and in your preteen years your inner radiance was based on whether you received approval from others.

How radiant do you expect to feel when you seek approval from others? The more approval you need, the more deeply you have buried your true self.

The more invalidated you feel, the more status you seek in society. The more you lack trust, the more you try to control the outcome of events in your life. By “trust,” I mean going with the flow, knowing that your highest good is always taken care of with divine guidance from the angelic realm and God, or whatever you believe is the highest source of pure love and wisdom in the universe, the source that is always present to assist you unconditionally in every moment of your life.

I bet you weren’t taught about that sort of trust when you were a preteen. I would venture to say you are not alone in this.

Today, unprecedented amounts of higher wisdom pour over the consciousness of humanity in every society across the globe.

Women at the dawn of the twenty-first century are far different from those at the dawn of the twentieth. Can you imagine how vast a leap in consciousness the women of the twenty-second century will feel? It will be light years from where we are now, and we can only get to that point by opening our gateway to higher consciousness through understanding and becoming acquainted with the higher consciousness that exists within our very own selves.

Building Your Inner Knowing

During your preteen years, a part of you did know more than you gave yourself credit for. A part of you saw through people, saw truth, and saw the distinction between who you felt you were and who you felt you should be.

The problem is that when adults teach us directly or indirectly to follow their dictates instead of asking us how we feel about what we are being told to do, the result is a split in ourselves. This split is most common but not acceptable.

When you are split, your ego unconsciously takes over your personality and slowly pulls the veil over your truth.

Now it is time to undo this process, which continues well into the teen years, so you can honor who you really are instead of who you have been told you should be to gain approval.

Chapter excerpt © Copyright 2005, 2012 by Barbara Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved. from Know Yourself: A Woman’s Guide to Wholeness, Radiance & Supreme Confidence. Published by The Rose Group (January 2005) ISBN: 0974145742.

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50 Reasons to Leave Skid Marks in a Relationship

Posted by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD BornToInspire on May 16, 2012 in Barbara's Books, Browse Relationships

You'll Know
By Barbara Rose, PhD

50 Reasons to Leave Skid Marks (Just one is reason enough to run fast!)

1. Either of you is married and not completely available.

2. The other is an active alcoholic or drug user, using substances regularly to avoid feelings.

3. You see the first sign of physical or mental abuse: put downs, degrading comments, pushing, shoving, or hitting.

4. The other person says he does not want to be in a relationship.

5. You are not taken on dates and courted.

6. You are a “friend with benefits.”

7. You are called for last minute get-togethers and rarely go out on dates.

8. You’re not allowed to express your feelings and are labeled emotional.

9. There is no clear, genuine communication.

10. You feel as if you are walking on eggshells to accommodate the other person.

11. The other person rarely, if ever, lets you know he can be counted on.

12. After six months, you do not know the other person’s family or friends.

13. Your relationship is kept secret.

14. After having been physically intimate with you for weeks or months, the other person no longer allows sexual relations.

15. After expressing love for you, he takes back what he said.

16. You rarely go places or do things together.

17. You have vastly different views about life.

18. Your spiritual or religious preferences are not honored and respected.

19. The other person tries to change you.

20. After intimacy, you are treated like a stranger.

21. You are put down in front of other people.

22. You are stood up for a date or plans.

23. Plans are repeatedly broken and not reset for another time.

24. You are sexually abused.

25. He speaks badly behind the backs of other people he is “seeing.”

26. Just about every other woman in his life is “just a friend” (that he slept with previously).

27. You are referred to as “someone I know.”

28. There is no physical chemistry or passion in bed.

29. You cannot talk to him about anything.

30. If you have a misunderstanding, he ends your relationship rather than talking it out.

31. You never go on any sort of vacation or getaway with him.

32. You are not acknowledged on special occasions and holidays.

33. You are threatened in any manner.

34. Your relationship has all kinds of restrictions and boundaries that prevent intimacy.

35. After a few years you still do not share a life together or a genuine monogamous relationship.

36. He lets you know about the other people he is having sex with (to see if you get jealous).

37. He plays games with your feelings and tries to manipulate you.

38. He cuts off communication when you are trying to discuss something that bothers you.

39. He tells you to find someone else. (Do that!)

40. He can be intimate with you only if he is drunk or high.

41. The relationship is off balance and one-sided, to suit his needs, without reciprocation.

42. Your personal growth is not honored.

43. He tries to control your finances and tells you what you can and cannot spend.

44. You have a telephone or Internet relationship and rarely get together in person.

45. No effort is made to see you in person regularly.

46. He goes out without you and calls you when he gets home in the middle of the night, but he rarely takes you out.

47. He refuses to talk openly about where you stand with each other.

48. He breaks up or stops contact with you repeatedly, and refuses to communicate openly, honestly, and authentically.

49. He makes it clear to you that you are “just friends” after you have been intimate.

50. Weeks go by without hearing from him at all.

Take a good look at both of the lists. Which one describes your relationship? Do you see it written all over the pages? This list points to a string along relationship. The One has the first list.

You are The One.

Number 1 Relationship Bestseller

Partial chapter excerpt © Copyright 2005, 2012 by Barbara Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved. from Stop Being the String Along: A Relationship Guide to Being THE ONE. Published by The Rose Group (April, 2005) ISBN: 0974145742. An Amazon # 1 Relationship Bestseller.

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50 Reasons to Stay in a Relationship: Excerpt from Stop Being the String Along

Posted by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD BornToInspire on April 25, 2012 in Browse Relationships, Exclusive Book Excerpts

Stop Being the String AlongBy Barbara Rose, PhD

50 Reasons to Stay (You need all of them.)

1. You share honest communication.

2. You share similar values.

3. You both have an expressed desire to be in the relationship and make to flourish.

4. You experience passion in bed.

5. You both follow through on what is said.

6. You respect each other’s life path.

7. You respect each other’s spiritual values.

8. You support each other in your careers and life purpose.

9. You have a real friendship.

10. You know each other’s friends and family.

11. You’re available for each other in case of an emergency.

12. You’re able to reach mutually agreeable solutions for differing opinions or preferences.

13. You talk out what is bothering you.

14. You acknowledge each other on special days such as birthday and holidays.

15. You can confide in each other.

16. You have a solid sense of self and the courage to speak up when something bothers you.

17. You know where you stand with each other.

18. You work out problems rather than run away from them.

19. You show each other respect in public and in private.

20. You honor and listen to what the other person is trying to communicate.

21. You share similar views on lifestyle.

22. You allow each other time alone.

23. You each allow the other to be who he is and don’t try to change him.

24. You each control your own individual finances.

25. You talk openly about changes you see happening in the other person and in yourself.

26. Both of you are single and completely available.

27. You show love, care, and respect to children you may have.

28. You share a vision together for the future.

29. You can work as a team.

30. You can each allow small quirks to go over your head, without a fuss.

31. You can say how you really feel.

32. You both honor and respect the other person’s feelings.

33. The relationship has zero verbal, physical and mental abuse–including put-downs and degrading comments.

34. The relationship has zero jealousy, games, and manipulation.

35. You have real dates.

36. After time, you create a full life together.

37. You take short (or long) vacations together.

38. If you live together, you share responsibilities equally.

39. Each of you monitors yourself and not the other person.

40. You both do what you want to do and allow the other person to do the same.

41. You respect each other’s exploration of new interests.

42. You know where you stand sexually and are honest with each other about it.

43. If you love each other and are having great difficulties that you want to work out, you seek professional counseling.

44. You are fully supportive of each other’s individual expression.

45. You treat each other as The One.

46. You talk to each other rather than to your friends or family about what is bothering you.

47. You do small things for each other out of kindness and love.

48. You let each other know in words and actions that you are there and can be counted on.

49. You take risks by being your authentic self in all areas.

50. You are completely honest, from your heart, and you don’t hide your truth because of the fears in your head.

Partial chapter excerpt © Copyright 2012 by Barbara Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved. from Stop Being the String Along: A Relationship Guide to Being THE ONE. Published by The Rose Group (April, 2005) ISBN: 0974145742. An Amazon # 1 Relationship Bestseller.

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Special Quotes from If God Was Like Man

Posted by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD BornToInspire on April 25, 2012 in Browse Pesonal Growth, Exclusive Book Excerpts

IF GOD WAS LIKE MAN

By Barbara Rose, PhD

“Be more open to the feeling of love that comes from serving your highest and best interest – the feeling that comes from a place of love rather than from self-protection or manipulation of self or others, the feeling that comes from simply being and opening yourself to all you sense and perceive.”

“Realize the dynamic and expansive power you do have, which will serve you in achieving all of your deepest joys. Your other sense, which is the strongest of all, is your ticket to the far reaches of this universe.”

“Who do you think you communicate with in your sleep? Who do you think gives you clarity or a fresher perspective or even an answer to something you were trying to figure out? It is you. The clarity, the answers come from the part of you that is your soul, a nonphysical form living a life in a higher realm.”

“The part of you that lives in another realm wishes you to know that your greatest asset is your free will, your choice in the moment. How to make the best choice is as simple as how to do anything for which you desire a successful outcome: Do it with your heart.”

“Always ask: “Are my motives known? If I hide my intentions, why do I think I have to do so? What am I afraid the other is going to discover?”

“In highly evolved societies you cannot deceive others because they can read your energy within the colors of the light spectrum. Looking at someone’s physical face and seeing that he is sad is the same as looking at someone’s color in the nonphysical realm – even in other physical realms. That’s why deception cannot exist on that level, and there is no reason for it to exist. Why not simply say the absolute truth? Then you are free to be, and to be good enough with your intentions.”

“Other civilizations are all centered around love, integrity, compassion, and sharing for the benefit of all, and not just for one.”

“So if God was like man, would he clone humans? It is to the detriment of your civilization to try to clone what cannot be cloned, to try to duplicate or replicate that which cannot be replicated. And that essence is love. To seek to destroy the essence of humanity, which is individuality, is to seek to control humanity. To do this is ungodly.”

“When you are so in tune with your spiritual nature, when you are so in touch with your ethereal nature, you begin to realize and then affirm and demonstrate the spiritual facts of this universe. All matter is created via intention.”

“All matter is energy. All matter is attached to a frequency. And frequencies travel on light waves, not strings.”

“You can seek to communicate with whoever you pray to. You can seek wisdom, support, guidance, friendship, help, clarification, and even direction. But no being in this or any universe is superior to you, and all you need to do truly is see, recognize, know, and realize all of your innate superior qualities, which most of humanity has barely tapped.”

“Seek to create and manifest all your heart desires. Seek to live a life so filled with passion and joy and excitement that you become a living expression of your divine heritage. Then you will come so much closer to all that those you’ve followed for so many millennia have tried to show you. All that was necessary was to worship self. You do not need to worship anyone other than self.”

Excerpt Quotes © Copyright 2012 by Barbara Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved from If God Was Like Man Published by The Rose Group (November 2003) ISBN: 0974145718. Second edition published 2010 by The Rose Group, all rights reserved.

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An Exclusive Excerpt From If God Was Like Man: A Message From God To All Of Humanity

Posted by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD BornToInspire on April 25, 2012 in Browse Society and Transformation, Exclusive Book Excerpts

By Barbara Rose, PhD

IF GOD WAS LIKE MAN

Love: why is it eternal? Because it is the life force of the universe. It is the most powerful force there is, and it is only love that brings you the lessons, people, circumstances, triumphs, and tragedies to grow beyond where you are now to where you wish to be in this life.

If I said to you, my children, that all lessons come “from the light” or from love, can you realize that although you may have endured pain at some time in your life, the growth was worth it?

Of course you can say this.

So it is all about love.

Now, love for self is paramount so that you can live your joy, which I do hope by now you realize will be called your work.

It is love for self that lets you get so excited about becoming all you truly want to be, so excited that you picture in fine detail your grandest self and move in the direction of your dreams.

I can tell you that messages you send out to me, to this universe, to others, are heard only in terms of how deeply you believe them. If your head says, “I want one million dollars per year,” but you believe you deserve to earn only eighty thousand dollars, then guess what you will receive? Eighty thousand dollars. If you feel and believe and want all you ask for, then you will receive it, because you believe you deserve it.

If I tell you that the more you give, the more you will receive; and if I tell you that you must be true to self and honor self while allowing others to love the life of their own choosing; and if I also tell you that when you love someone, there is a purpose to the relationship, would you believe me? Even if the purpose is to grow in a small area of your life or to flourish together, all has a purpose. And that purpose is love.

If you wish to have happiness, but you are feeling inner turmoil, then justifications, avoidance, and cynicism are truly not the way out of your pain. Only enough love of self can heal your pain and dissolve its negative effect in your life.

Many of you are in deep inner pain and do not do anything about it until you hit bottom in one form or another.

Many of you suffer so needlessly because you don’t realize that taking personal responsibility to heal your issues would free you from those issues.

Many of you want so many things, and you deserve to have them.

Many of you do not even realize that it is your unconscious beliefs (those beliefs you are not aware of) that prevent all of the good you seek.

For example, many people want to love someone and to be loved in return, but they do not feel deserving of receiving the love, and so they unconsciously sabotage their happiness.

I say to you, if you notice an area of your life that you truly wish would improve, and yet you find that it never gets better, then my children, it is you who need to get better.

This can be done via therapy, via books, via talking to people who are knowledgeable about the area for which you seek professional help, or it can be done simply by looking in the mirror and asking yourself, “Is this how I really want my life to be?”

What do you really want?

That is the love.

If you truly want something, no matter what it is, then seek to heal that part of you which unconsciously destroys or blocks or sends away all you truly want.

You do not even realize you are pushing away all you are seeking, and thus you are in constant pain. If you have a repetitious pattern that causes you anguish with another person, your employment, your living arrangements, your career, or any other area of your life, the solution exists within you.

It is inside of you already. Every solution you seek is within. You will get it not from another but from within self.

It may take another to get you to reach the solution within self, someone such as a therapist or a professional career advisor or even me, in my writings or prayer for an answer. But no matter who you turn to for help with any problems that plague you from within, there too lie your solutions: within yourself.

It is not about who or what is on the outside. Once your view shifts to seeking the solution within yourself, you will notice your entire life can also shift to match your new attitudes and beliefs.

It is not magic or a miracle; it is simply cause and effect.

Every solution you seek is already within you.

The answer to your every question awaits your discovery. So if you truly want to heal or find a solution or improve an area of your life, look within; and if you feel confused, seek advice or help from another to clarify the inner conflicts that result in your inner or outer pain.

I can only tell you that as long as life exists, love is the force that will prevail.

I can only tell you that truth will always set you free.

Sometimes we may be free on the outside but feel as if we are imprisoned from within. Sometimes we may be free on the inside and yet the outside looks very confusing to us, with chaos, wars, fighting, all discord. All because of people who are not healed from within. People who try to control others – their beliefs, land, religion, practices, doctrines, eating habits, sexual preferences, even the very God to whom they pray.

No. Focus on self. Heal self. Leave others alone.

And trust that if you are seeking to be your highest self, your example will shine. You are a beacon of light. And no matter how quiet or well known your work, no matter how famous or unknown you may be, you do have a purpose on this earth, in this life, and that purpose is to love you and to be the real you. To shine with love for self. And it is from that love that you will naturally radiate to all around you.

I have tried to give you many practical ways to manifest your dreams and to seek to solve the issues that plague humanity during the dawn of this twenty first century.

All I can ever do is work through you. I am not physical as one being; I am physical inside of every being existing throughout the universe.

There is only one God, and yet one God is within every person throughout all of space and so-called time.

You have God within, and that is why every answer exists within.

When you feel pain, it is because your focus is on the issue rather than on the gift.

I do not usually bring up historical events in light of the many who have suffered, but I will say that on the morning of September 11, 2001, before the event of that day occurred, several people looked very upset when they were running late to work. They sought a solution; they did not trust that being late to work was a gift.

For those of you who lost loved ones during that event, I can only tell you that they are all at peace. They are not suffering; and they knew it was a part of life to depart physical life at some point. Their feelings for all their loved ones, however, remain eternal. Your feelings and prayers for your loved ones remain eternal.

Not one soul ever dies. A body may no longer be present in physical form but the soul, the essence of the person, is as alive and vibrant as when he or she did have a body on earth.

Life continues because love continues.

Love is the ingredient that causes each person to push harder, try one more time, seek a solution, care for another, become his or her best, help another to succeed, bring justice where injustice previously prevailed, fulfill a dream, enjoy a sunset.

These are all motivated by love.

If you are in pain, then love has been ignored and fear has taken its place.

If you are afraid, then you are wilting. When you feel love, excitement, and inner peace, you are expanding.

This universe is expanding because love is expanding. Sometimes it takes loss to realize how precious love is. Sometimes you are fortunate enough to have been loved by another person. I can tell you, however, that each and every one of you is loved by me.

The only solution to all that plagues humanity is love.

There must be love for the research to discover cures for diseases.

Barbara has asked for the cure for AIDS. I told her that the cure was contained in the Eucalyptus plant; there you will discover a compound that can help cure this disease.

It is the love of discovery that makes the search worthwhile.

If I gave you every answer, it would be the same as if I read you the ending of a story when you were only on page five.

Trust that you will find the answers when you are in love with the process of discovering them.

Trust that you have value far beyond what you were raised to believe by your family or your culture. Trust that your life is solely for the purpose of doing what you love to do – and to love every minute of doing it.

That is the purpose of life on earth.

Chapter excerpt © Copyright by Barbara Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved from If God Was Like Man: A Message from God to All of Humanity. Published by The Rose Group (November 2003) ISBN: 0974145718 Available as e-book download on www.borntoinspire.com Published in Russian by Popuri in Balarius, Minsk.

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How Do I Say Goodbye to Someone I Love?

Posted by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD BornToInspire on April 25, 2012 in Browse Relationships

By Barbara Rose, PhD

The Questions

1. How can I say goodbye when I don’t want to?

2. What if I love someone, and we are no longer together but he/she is moving away?

3. Can you please explain why some people keep returning to each other after repeated break-ups?

4. How do I stop thinking about the past and hoping for the future?

5. What do I do with all of the love I still feel for that person?

The Answers

1. How can I say goodbye when I don’t want to?

When a circumstance happens that your personality might not like, it is imperative that you stop fighting what the universe is showing you, and start to look for the blessing in disguise, as well as the higher reason behind it.

When you truly learn to go with the flow, in the moment, you will gain a great deal of trust. What you will ultimately trust is that it is happening for your highest good and for the highest good of the other person. You might not see the higher reason at the current time, but you definitely will in hindsight.

You do not own another person. He or she can do whatever he or she wants to do. How could you not say goodbye if that is being asked of you? This is the root of desirous attachment. Your desires might be too attached to the other person in a way that is not healthy. The only way to release this, as with anything else, is with tremendous love and compassion for you and for the other person.

Look at what good can possibly come out of the situation. Look for what might very well be for each of your highest good. Replace “want” with “prefer”. You “prefer” to trust that there are higher reasons behind this situation and what you “want” might not be possible at this time. It might be possible in the future, or never. Release that grip with a flow of unconditional love. This will serve each of you far better than holding on for dear life. As a matter of fact, a “dear life” is what you ultimately “want” both for you and the other person. Allow it to be what it is. As soon as you begin to “allow” then you will begin to feel inner peace, and the pain will vanish.

2. What if I love someone, and we are no longer together but he/she is moving away?

The greatest thing you can do is go into your deepest heart, that place where pure unconditional love resides, and wish that person the greatest life that any human being can possibly have. If you are able, you can let the person know that you love him/her, and that he or she can always call you if they ever want to. Then, with pure, transparent love, view the other person the way you would view a butterfly, and allow him or her to fly away freely, while you simultaneously send him or her your love and purest good wishes.

Sometimes people need to move away to have a fresh start. Sometimes they need to separate from the past so they can grow, heal, transform and bloom into their highest expression of self in this lifetime. Sometimes they need to re-create an entire new life. If you truly and genuinely love this person, you have to realize that it requires a great amount of self love to be able to allow another to go away so that you do not feel tortured inside, but that you feel love and inner peace.

Begin to view your love as the gift that it is, and view yourself with tremendous pure love, without condition. This means that there is no condition that validates how lovable or worthy you are. And, this includes whether or not a person is in your life.

It is vital that you realize that you are not saying goodbye to the love you feel, you are merely saying goodbye to the old circumstances. If you have not been together, chances are great that each of you needed to grow and perhaps could not do this while remaining physically together.

View this new circumstance as a positive experience for greater self love, for each of you! See the good in it. It is there, and if you look for it, you will find it! Under all circumstances, find the love in the situation, and how this is serving as a positive catalyst in each of your lives. This will bring you into a great deal of trust, and the pain will be replaced by unconditionally loving acceptance. This in turn leads to a great deal of inner peace.

3. Can you please explain why some people keep returning to each other after repeated break-ups?

There is only one thing in this universe can never be destroyed and this is pure love. When two people deeply love each other and have repeated break-ups this is a clear indication that each person has growing to do, or they, just like everyone else on earth, would not be in this life to begin with.

When two people are together and they trigger each of their deepest growth issues, deep rooted feelings will naturally come to the surface. Then the ego takes its typical “fight or flight” position. Some people break up when what they are feeling is triggering so much inside, that they just want to get away. In this case, the ego has won its temporary battle. However, as time passes, and each person has solitude to so some deep soul searching, they discover that they did, in fact, have some growing to do on the personal level. They even realize that the other person was a wonderful catalyst for this growth. The love comes back to the surface, and they somehow get back in touch with each other because the love truly never died!

Some people call this a “love/hate, can’t live with him/her, can live without him/her” relationship. Personally, I do not agree with this view, as it is giving a surface excuse that labels something far deeper and wiser. I would call it profound love, growth and realization that has phases of togetherness and separation when needed for the growth of each person.

Relationships that are this deep have clearly come into our lives for higher reasons, and they are all related to growth. First for self, possibly to learn how to be authentic in a relationship, and ultimately it serves a positive purpose for many others.

If you find that you have been apart many times, and have returned to each other many times, I would venture to say that you have each grown tremendously as a result. Would you agree with this view? This is “why”. It is all for growth. The other reason “why” is because pure love never dies, ever. So when you are together love and treasure every moment. When you are apart, love yourself while you bring your greatest contributions into this world. Under all circumstances give yourself and the other person pure, transparent love, while you trust that everything really is in divine order, and working out for each of your highest good.

4. How do I stop thinking about the past and hoping for the future?

Your mind is going to have thoughts and memories about the past. You might hear a song that brings back certain memories. You might come across something or some place that reminds you of the person you love. There are two key components to this.

The first one is allowing the thoughts to come to the surface instead of trying to get rid of them and block them out. They might trigger a lot of feelings and it is important that you acknowledge their existence. You can realize and learn a lot from what is coming into your mind from the past. You can grow and learn from these past memories. You can see how much you have already grown, and you can cherish the times you had in the past for all of the good it did bring into your life, even if some of those times were difficult. In this case, allow, acknowledge and come into your truth about what your thoughts and feelings are trying to get you to see, feel and recognize. You can have wonderful realizations if you take this approach and it is entirely empowering!

The second disempowering aspect of thinking about the past is dwelling in it and wishing it were the same. This takes you out of the now moment, when your creativity, and creatively thinking by looking for a higher reason as to why you are feeling this way will serve you so much better.

You cannot re-do the past. It is behind you. You can only go forward from this point one moment at a time. So if a past memory comes up, allow it to! What is it trying to tell you? How do you really feel about it? Come into your truth. Then, go with what you are getting. If the person you love contacts you, be REAL! If the person you love never contacts you again, trust and accept what is, and with a great amount of loving compassion for yourself, focus on what you can experience or create in this now moment.

The only time it will serve you to think about the past is when you truly want to learn and grow from your past experiences. Trying to bring back the past is like trying to bring back a breeze that passed by. But, you can always have a new breeze come your way. It could be the same person, or a new person. It could be many experiences you came into this life to express. The greatest thing you can do with your memories of the past is give them a lot of love, because they did serve you well, especially if they were difficult. If you are dwelling in a negative manner, then this is hindering your growth. Ask yourself what you have learned, and what means the most to you.

Above all, trust that you would not be where you are today if those experiences were not in your life, and you are not meant to keep re-living the events of your past. You are here to create new, positive and life enriching ones.

Can they be with the same person? That is up to each person’s free will and choice. You can trust one thing, however, and that is that if it is meant to be for your highest good, it will be, no matter which way it turns out.

In a nutshell, view the past with love and appreciation. Then you can take all of the growth you have made and create, live, be and express so much more.

Hoping for the future is a complete waste of time. Why? Because it is detracting from this now moment when all creation exists! Pull yourself into NOW, and you will feel guided from within. Life will begin to flow smoothly, effortlessly, and everything will fall into place for your highest good. If you could only realize how profound this now moment is, when events happen that you would call a miracle, you will cease to live projecting into the future, and you will create everything from your heart NOW. There is nothing more pure and positive, and it all comes from your heart. TRUST that everything is unfolding according to your highest good. As you begin to get centered in this now moment, go with what your inner guidance and gut feelings are telling you! ALWAYS follow your inner guidance. THAT is what will create your “future” and it will result in the greatest life you could possibly have.

5. What do I do with all of the love I still feel for that person?

Allow it to be there. If you try to fight the love, try to get rid of it, and try to avoid it, I can pretty much guarantee that it is like trying to fight, get rid of and avoid the fact that sunlight exists.

If you feel love, then honor and acknowledge those feelings! They are letting you know your truth. Just by doing that alone will simultaneously bring you into your truth, and will stop the internal battle of your ego and your heart. What is so terrible about feeling love? Only what you believe can harm you, and those beliefs must be uprooted so you can at least feel your truth. Then, look at what is happening now. If you can, or wish to get in touch with the person you love, do so! If you know or have been asked to leave that person alone, then honor and respect what he or she asked of you. This must be done with purity of motive, with love and respect for yourself and for the other person.

If you are not able to be in contact with that person, simply feel your feelings, and create the best that you can out of them! The key here is to realize that it is okay to feel love for someone, however, it must be a “transparent” love with purity and zero “tactics” run by ego to push anything based on an agenda, an ego agenda. This “agenda’ includes denial of your feelings. That is EGO in its prime.

Alternatively, you can write a book, a song or create something positive for others. Most importantly, you can love yourself for having the capacity to love! This is a GIFT in life, and it is one of the greatest gifts you can ever feel and express in any positive manner.

When you think of that special person, in your mind, wish him or her pure love, freely. When you are giving that from your heart, the other person will feel it. As long as it is pure, meaning that you truly wish the best for that person, you will then be able to bring out the best you have within you. This can also help many other people who are feeling the same way. How do I know this? You might wonder, so I will give you the answer. I recently experienced all of this, and the pure love remains beneath it all. I now trust that there really IS a higher reason for everything that happens.

I now know that there is perfect orchestration in this universe and everything is unfolding for the highest good of all, every step of the way. As I trust I learned to stop fighting it all, because there are precious gifts within every circumstance – I had to first learn to look for them, instead of what my ego used to either be attached to or avoid. I know that pure love never dies, and I had to stop trying to get rid of it. I had to ALLOW it and create the best that I can from it. At the same time, from the most pure place within, I do wish that very special person the greatest life any human being can ever have. I also wish this for you!

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How to Graduate from Earth School

Posted by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD BornToInspire on April 11, 2012 in Browse Society and Transformation
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Awakening Your Higher Consciousness LIVE Global Seminars

Posted by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD BornToInspire on March 29, 2012 in Browse Answers from God, Browse Higher Self Communication, Browse Spirituality

This seminar class is held live, globally via phone on Wednesdays at 9:00 PM Eastern Daylight Time.

Class access is given to those whose registration is approved to prevent over booking in order to secure your space in the live seminars.

Registration closes without notice.

You will be able to receive personal help live, however classes are NOT recorded to protect your confidentiality.

There are two options for class tuition.

1. Regular Tuition is $20 US payable via fully secure Pay Pal.

2. If you are unable to pay the regular tuition you may register via Pay Pal with a love offering in the amount you can honestly afford.

cascadingNo one is ever denied class participation with Dr. Rose due to funds..

Watch for the next post for an overview of topics covered in the live Wednesday class seminars.

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Just Want to Inspire You

Posted by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD BornToInspire on March 18, 2012 in Pure Inspiration

adversity becomes your asset

Take the worst you have been through, ask God for guidance and help to turn all the pain around – then share it with all. You’ll be amazed at how much of a difference your courage and help make when people share their gratitude with you!

God gave me a quote;

There are no limits in this universe – only limited thinking”

YES you DESERVE “every single little thing your heart desires”. Just make sure you know what you do WILL come back to you multiplied. Keep your heart pure, your motives honest, and remember one thing… If you aren’t sure about what you love – look at pics on line. When your heart leaps – like OH I LOVE THAT – right click on the image and create a pic collage. This you can use for your own personal wallpaper so you see it every day. Then your whole life will mirror every single little photo you loved. Have fun, too!

I PROMISE you – no matter what you are going through, you will adjust. You can transform. You are never alone. Maybe a few million people can relate. I’ll share one thing with you – if it’s one heartbreaking, challenging time, I’ve been there and I’m your friend.

Use all of your pain and bring through a book or a song or a TV series or Feature Film. People – the WORLD can relate. Everyone loves the underdog who takes the last grain of determination you’ve got left to turn it all around because you REFUSE to stay down.

Oh yes it does! There’s an old saying, “Whether you think you can or you think you can’t – YOU’RE RIGHT!

Rx 20,000 mg Self LovePLEASE look at yourself in the mirror and give yourself a hug. Stop every single mean thing you say and think to and about yourself. Replace it all with a prayer to find your way through to transform how you view yourself and how you live your life. ASK for the higher perspective. I am positive you will receive it, and you definitely deserve to.

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Drowning on the Titanic

Posted by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD BornToInspire on February 27, 2012 in HEADLINE TIMES, MEDIA

Barbara Rose, PhD Official Logo I was only four years old in this life when my parents took me to the beach on a hot summer day in New York.

I had never had a negative experience with water at any time. When my Dad, Milan, put me up on his shoulders standing in the Atlantic Ocean the water was peaceful and mild, not a rough wave in sight.

Terrorized I Would Die

I vividly remember screaming at the top of my lungs in sheer terror, “Get me out of the ocean, I’m going to die, get me out, I’m going to die!”

My Dad put me on the sand, and I went about playing there as if nothing had happened. I felt safe on the sand.

As a teenager when I went to Jones Beach on Long Island as soon as the smallest wave was in sight I ran for my life on to the safety of the sand. But not knowing why perplexed me greatly.

Circa 1994 I had moved to LA. I was seeing a counselor to learn how to re-gain the self esteem I somehow lost. I liked the therapist, but I kept showing up late and I didn’t know why.

She asked me if I ever had a past life regression. I answered, “No.” She then asked me if I would like one, to which I replied, “Yes.”

She took me way back and I was on the Titanic. This was LONG before there was ever a movie made about the horrific event in 1912. I had never seen a photo of the inside of the ship. During my past life regression I was standing on a large circular staircase with a mantle and clock at the top. Lying on my therapist’s couch, I was screaming, “The water’s co0ming in, the water’s rushing in.” I stood in sheer terror as the force of the water ruched into the ship. My therapist asked me, “What decision are you making now?” I replied, “I will NEVER be out of control again!”

She said, “That’s it” and she pulled me out of the horrifying death I re-lived. I never made it out of the ship, I drowned when the water enveloped me. If there is ever an experience of being “out of control” I would have to say drowning on a sinking ship in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean is at the top of the list.


A-Ha! So that’s why I always felt the need to be in control!”
A-Ha! So that’s why I was always afraid of the ocean waves.
A Ha! So that’s why I would never dive in head first into a swimming pool.

Finally last year, 99 years after the sinking, I was finally over my fear of the ocean.

For all of these years somewhere in my heart I knew that those we’ve loved and lost had promised to meet again.

That is what this 100 Year Titanic Reunion is all about.

Maybe the people we connect with who suddenly enter our lives bring greatness with them, and us to you.

This is NOT about the movie, this is about,

“We Will Meet Again

There is no way you would get me on a cruise, but I would love to meet you if you have had similar experiences. A reunion can bring us and humanity so much good. I pray that it does. The Titanic Reunion T-Shirts will always be a great way to strike up a conversation with someone we normally might not have the inkling to speak to.

So many of us have relived our death on that fateful night in 1912. We deserve to meet again now 100 years later in 2012.

God Bless!
Barbara
PS – I tossed the idea for a reunion because so many people either don’t know about or believe in past lives. My heart was in it, I’m just letting the whole thing go.

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Society & Transformation

Posted by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD BornToInspire on February 19, 2012 in Barbara's Books, Browse Society and Transformation

When a tragedy happens, most people do not simply accept that there was a higher reason for the event to happen. Additionally most people may not comprehend that the unthinkable is truly a catalyst for greatly needed positive transformation within society.

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Spirituality & Higher Consciousness

Posted by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD BornToInspire on February 19, 2012 in Barbara's Books, Browse Spirituality

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All of us want to be assured that the higher guidance we receive can be accessed at will at any time. This is the beauty of receiving answers and guidance from God. Some of the most important signs are:

  • Guidance flows into your mind clearly.
  • There is always hope and a positive energy, never gloom and doom.
  • You receive information that is crystal clear such as, “Don’t go to work today, stay home.” This was actually given to a client who listened and followed through in her actions on 9/11. It saved her life although she was traumatized that everyone she worked with in the Twin Towers perished on that day.
  • There is nothing to debate about what the guidance is. Following it, however, can be difficult until we realize from all past times how much we wish we would have followed that guidance all along.
  • All you need to have is a conscious mind to receive the purest guidance in the universe. You will NEVER be guided to hurt yourself or initiate harm to others.
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Renowned Relationship Guidance

Posted by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD BornToInspire on February 17, 2012 in Browse Relationships

When you are searching for REAL relationship guidance, the kind that is both sincere and life changing, you’ve arrived at an unparalleled place. You will feel like you’ve made a real friend. Barbara shares passionately about how she turned it all around.

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Personal Growth & Transformation

Posted by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD BornToInspire on February 17, 2012 in Browse Pesonal Growth

Barbara shares from her tears and pain how to transform into your highest expression of self.

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