When you are searching for REAL relationship guidance, the kind that is both sincere and life changing, you’ve arrived at an unparalleled place. You will feel like you’ve made a real friend. Barbara shares passionately about how she turned it all around.
Personal Growth & Transformation
Barbara shares from her tears and pain how to transform into your highest expression of self.
Vitaderm Scam
Vitaderm Scam 
Dr. Barbara Rose ordered a free trial of Vitaderm skin cream supposedly to reverse the signs of aging. She paid for shipping but was shocked when she received an open plastic jar without any protective covering, without any literature, nor was the unscented product in a box. When she was charged $79.99 for this “free trial” she phoned the customer service number and was told she could not receive a refund. She told the person they are scamming her, which led to the customer service female to say she could receive a 50% refund. Rose then informed the customer service operator that the attorney general will be shutting them down and they will be on CNN news in addition to receiving a mass media press release and PR nightmare and to refund her money immediately
Rose’s warning resulted in the customer service person stating that she spoke with her supervisor and she was given permission to give her a full refund.
This product is part of additional related free trial products including Aqualift and REJUVEYE all shipped from the same company under the Vitaderm label.
Rose wants to protect unsuspecting customers who want a refund but may just accept their scamming tactics without any knowledge of how to receive a legitimate refund for the $79.99 charge.
The product itself is unscented white cream. It could be baby cream or any type of moisturizer literally poured into the bottle just before it is tossed into an envelope without protection and shipped off.
Telephone customer service at 1-888-543-9408 to cancel any and all accounts with this Vitaderm company if you are unhappy with this same product.
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Headline Times was founded by Dr. Barbara Sherry Rose to be the first in transformational journalism to make a positive difference without an agenda. Rose was inducted into Kappa Tau Alpha National Honor Society for Journalism and Mass Communication in 2001.
Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD Gets Married
It could be that when she got engaged on her 50th birthday and shortly thereafter received a twelve carat rock 
she married the man of her dreams on January 6, 2012.
She fell in love with a man who has every quality money can’t buy and after years of past relationship misery she is finally being treated like a queen.
He has every quality I ever wanted in a man. But more than that is how he treats me like a queen. I call him “My King.”
A far cry from “String Along Valley” Barbara is releasing a new relationship bestseller “Treated Like a Queen.”
Every person needs to know what it takes to be treated so well. There definitely is a system to be like a queen. The mystery is finally solved and I’m sharing it with the world.
Barbara is hard at work creating a mega empire of philanthropic deeds with The Rose Group Philanthropic Foundation. The Rose Group is launching a whole new world of foreign language jobs to uplift humanity, and Barbara looks forward to meeting you as she begins a world tour tied with the United Nations to end world hunger.
Be ready to see a whole lot of news in Headline Times, including relationship news.
I used to think maybe there could not be a man who would meet up to my standards because after a lifetime of unhappy relationships I wondered if it was possible. Absolutely, and I’m ecstatic to share with the world what it takes to be treated so well. It’s being THE ONE in every way. I’m deeply grateful.
Apple iPod touch 8GB (4th Generation) -Life on Earth is Amazing
Wow! Headline Times can’t resist sharing about Apple iPod touch 8GB (4th Generation).
From seeing your friend and talking over WIFI, to creating a video, to downloading a book, holding your place on the news article you’re reading, downloading 2.000 songs – this is the most amazing devise I’ve ever seen.
One of the reasons I find this so extraordinary is quoting from the product description.
Find My Friends. Friend-spotting.
For finding your way to the party, keeping track of family at a crowded amusement park, or getting picked up at the airport, Find My Friends is your app. You can give friends and family permission to see your whereabouts. And vice versa. When you don’t want to be found, a single switch takes you off the grid. Simple as that.
I feel this is important for parents and children safety. Now technology can save a life, prevent
the unthinkable, in addition to features that are truly amazing.
This is when technology meets life’s most important issues and does something about it instantaneously.
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God’s Answers to Barbara Rose in a Personal Writing
By Barbara Rose, PhD
I felt that this is important for me to share with you, from my own private journal (a spiral 5 subject note book,) for the many people who are either not yet aware that they can receive answers from God, or people who are not exactly sure how to go about this process.
Here is what happened, so you can understand the order of events.
First, I sent out a newsletter card with a 4 quotes from the book 
“Dear God, How Can I Finally Love Myself ?” because I felt that those quotes would truly help people who are having a lot of difficulty in the self love area.
Second, I received (it appeared to be by accident) via email the following from a subscriber:
“She teaches “spirituality” with a strong emphasis on God and the soul. Check out what she says below.
It’s this same BS is rampant with these excletic so called spiritual teachers.”
Here are the 4 quotes that were “below” in the newsletter card:
4 Statements That Reflect Self Love & Truth
See How You Feel Living Them:
“1. I am in this life to live according to what feels true for me alone. I listen to myself, my heart, and I stop allowing myself to be ordered around by others, now.”
“2. When I am asked to do something that I really do not want to do, I say no. If the person asks me why, I simply say that I do not feel comfortable with it or do not feel up to it.”
“3. I remove myself from any person or situation that is abusive and hurtful.”
“4. When someone tries to tell me what I can and cannot do, I thank them for their perspective and let them know in words and actions that I am the only one who can make my decisions for me.”
Quoted from the Book: Dear God, How Can I Finally Love Myself?
Third, when I read what that subscriber said, I went into full blown, human EGO, hurt and anger. I felt like I was stabbed in the heart, I felt deeply hurt, and really angry.
Fourth, I noticed all of my emotions in the moment, and said to myself: “Barbara, there must be a reason that you are not consciously aware of that is causing you to feel this way. Do a writing to God so you can know what it is, and so it can be cleared up NOW.”
Fifth, I did the writing below, and I feel much better, clearer, filled with inner peace and true understanding.
*******Here is the letter to God and the answers I received below that REALLY turned around all of those negative feelings, and why. I truly hope this helps you!
“Dear God,
Please help me to uproot what is still buried in my unconscious for me to feel that kind of negative & hurtful reaction to what that subscriber said about me. Also, please guide me about anything else you see I need guidance about.
Thank you w/ all of my heart for Divine, Pure & Perfect Truth in Advance. Love,
Barbara
(Note – the words that are in CAPS below were underlined in my writing in the answers I received.)
My Dearest Child,
His comments about you were simply based on his own perceptions. They are not a reflection of your truth. The reason it got to you is because there is still a part of you that wants to be loved, accepted & even admired by others. The part of your ego that believes ANY criticism must be truth – because you have experienced MUCH criticism in your life, and you sought to gain approval from others in order to feel better.
This was simply a memory on the unconscious level that got triggered and it is very good that you ask about this because there will be MUCH MORE criticism of your work, your spiritual work, your seeking to help others, and it is precisely those people who are judgmental of you who are teaching you every time to view them w/ loving compassion, instead of taking their views into your being and allowing it to hurt you.
It felt like a stab in your heart, but what it DID was open up an old wound, so the toxic old beliefs could be replaced as they are now from your system, ego, and beliefs. You see, you KNOW truth, and when you see fallacy this upsets you.
Instead of getting upset, please realize that what appears to be fallacy to you may very well appear to others to be the real truth and vice versa.
It is okay to share this writing w/ your group – you are human and growing just like everybody else on earth, so perhaps a few others can relate to this.
ALLOW them – those who criticize you THEIR truth, while you continue to live according to the truth in your heart. It is really THAT simple. His truth does not have to be in a battle with YOUR truth. Both can be valid for each of you.
Many people resist even their OWN truth – so it obviously hit a nerve inside of him. This is all growth – for you, for him and for many others.
Sometimes it does feel difficult or painful, but as you know, this pain is extremely temporary.
You grow in compassion with every insult that is lashed on to you – and yet, it is not lashed on to YOU at all – it is simply another person expressing his beliefs. And, as you know & share, all people are entitled to their beliefs. So this is actually strengthening you.
I see you realize now & feel better. You sent something out from your heart. If others do not like it, this is okay. Your motive was to help, not gain popularity. Allow others their comments and please know they are entitled to them – just as you are entitled to your beliefs.
Many people resist change. You are embracing personal transformation and sharing from your experiences so others can relate.
All is well. Do you see now how it opened up an old wound, so it can finally heal?
Yes, this is truth. Everybody is entitled to their truth, and not everybody has to agree. It is called live & let live.
Love others for their views, even if they appear to be negative & hurtful about you.
Love them for teaching you more love & compassion in the face of adverse criticism. As you send the person love, you are free from the old ego negative unconscious belief that you need any sort of approval or agreement from others.
You do not. You only need the agreement of the truth in your heart.
Please remember that this is a period of preparing you for much. As you grow, you can smile one day when someone insults you, and as you have in the past, you can thank them for their valuable opinion.
This is good growth. It is a reminder to always allow others their truth, while you live yours.
Be Well. I Love You!”
*******End of writing.
© Copyright 2006, 2011 by Barbara Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved.
What a Soul Mate Relationship is REALLY all about
By Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD
OK – let’s get down to the myths and facts about what a soul mate relationship is REALLY all about to clear up what society has created… an illusion of rainbows and ice cream without a care in the world. That is the myth.
The other myth is, that your soul mate is the only person on the planet that you can be happy with. First, we are all spiritual and human beings. On the spiritual level, when soul mates meet, there is that instant “knowing” or familiarity, and there is a feeling of Heaven on Earth.
This is the soul’s remembrance of the love and the bond you shared from past lives, and the bond of love is eternal, so naturally you will feel as if you are picking up from where you left off, because you really are.
Now, once you meet and go through this initial stage of bliss, then the ego, on the personality level, feels as if you are “complete” now that you have your soul mate in your life. What is happening at this point is that the expectations of the relationship, stemming from the ego or personality level, are going to trigger the ego responses of your soul mate, and this is where the resistance begins… the disappointments, the feelings of doubt… yet the love is still very powerful and strong.
The reason why you met in this life is to heal old karmic patterns on a soul level, where parts of your personality need to be healed, and so on a soul level you and your soul mate will trigger and bring to the surface, all that you each came into this life to heal.
This is a most difficult process, one filled with pain and turmoil, as you each begin to see the issues the other person has to heal, and then on the personality level you begin to blame, or wish they could change.
You see their highest and best from the beginning, and they show their vast potential, yet at the same time, they are showing all of their weaknesses and split apart levels of Self that need to be healed, and integrated into wholeness… and the same is true for you.
Every issue, on a deep core soul level, that you came into this life to heal, will be triggered by your soul mate. Let me tell you that this is a grueling process, as we have to face our own areas of lack of self worth and heal them.
It all comes down to Self Love… because as you truly love Self, then many of the expectations of the other are released, then there is another component of the soul mate relationship where each of you must grow and heal.
Spiritual law forbids that soul mates remain together if one is not healing. For example, if one of you is there no matter what, and the other cannot be there, like a dear friend would be, you would hopefully grow with enough self love to understand that the other person is growing and doing their best with their current level of growth, and at the same time, you do deserve someone in your life who can, reciprocate in a healthy and loving manner.
This is why many soul mates do not spend the rest of their lives together. Although the love and care never die, each one has to take full responsibility to become their highest and best, and it is your soul mate who will get you to see the areas that are in the most need of healing.
As far as the reasons for why more highly evolved soul mates come together, it is to make a contribution for the betterment of any level of life on Earth. Soul mates who have grown through their challenges on the personal level, are then ready to contribute their highest and best, as well as their authentic life purpose. This is the joy of the soul mate union.
Now, if you are “looking for your soul mate”, I can tell you that what you are looking for, is for all of your deep rooted issues to be brought to Light to be healed and resolved. This will take just about everything you’ve got inside, to heal, become whole and fully integrated on the personality level, and the soul level. This is a vastly difficult process.
Now if you have met your soul mate, and you are going through difficulty, this is where it is vital for you to turn the focus onto your areas that need to be healed, rather than focus on the other, because they are your mirror to come to inner and outer wholeness.
So when you say: “I wish he/she could be there for me more”, replace their name and put “I” instead, “I wish I could be there for me more.” This is the mirror reflection of the “soul level” issue that is crying out for healing.
It is so easy to see the other person’s issue, and it is a big blast to our ego to turn the spotlight onto our own selves. So the myth is that this union is a land of perfection and sunshine.
Please remember, that your soul mate is also in this life, in Earth school, to heal and grow, just like you are, just like we all are. And to place tremendous expectations on the other person, is fulfilling ego desire and attachment… it is not self healing.
We have to view both ourselves, and the other, with tremendous compassion and unconditional understanding. We have to release all judgment and criticism, both for them, and especially for ourselves.
Now, many soul mates do come together, and can break up, do some healing, and return again and again. This is quite common because the love never dies. What is happening here is that during the times apart, each person is doing their own self reflection and growth to become the highest and best you came into this life to be.
So after some time apart, we get to see how we could have done a better job, we are growing, so then you will find you may come back together again. We can’t continue the pain of wishing it “could” be a different way… this keeps us, our ego, and our personality in a prison of inner turmoil. We have to accept the person as they are now.
Here is another analogy for you. If someone is sick, and they sneeze, would you get all upset and take it personally? No of course not.
So it is the same when your ego and personality “react” to what they do or say out of expectation, rather than out of loving compassion and understanding. Each one is doing his and her own best, so do not take it into the core of your being (like I used to), and let it throw you into turmoil.
The more self love you gain the more compassion and understanding you will be able to give… Also, you really have to trust that sometimes soul mates are meant to stay together, after a long period of healing.
Other soul mate relationships must end, because one or both refuse to heal. The bond and the love are the deepest you will ever experience, and the personal growth and transformation will be the deepest of any relationship you have.
However, it can be a real rocky road, filled with tears and pain as you each struggle to grow into wholeness, which is the purpose of the soul mate relationship. We came into this life to grow, not stagnate. After we have healed our core issues, we can have much more of that bliss like you did in the beginning. This is why it is so important to focus on the issues your ego and expectations you are holding on to, so that you can grow, heal, and experience this bliss of Self Love, with zero ego attachment.
Once you reach this stage (It took me 4 years), then you will be free from pain. The ego gives way when we come into wholeness, and then we are free. We are also loving and compassionate towards our soul mate. If you are together or not, there is more understanding because the old ego needs are gone.
© Copyright 2012 by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved.
Did You Ever Feel You Had to Forsake Your Truth in Order to Win Approval?
By Barbara Rose, PhD
Did you learn to cater to others to win approval and validation? Did you find that once you learned that pattern, it was like a vicious cycle? I did. No matter how much I gave and did, I still never felt validated. I still searched for approval.
The traits that you have learned to disown within yourself are the very traits that will set you free to be all of who you truly are–once you own them.
You, just like me,
Must face your truth at all times and in every area of your life. It is only by living out your truth, when your mind, heart, words, and actions are all congruent, all perfectly aligned, that you will begin to feel whole. And as a result, your self-esteem is going to skyrocket.
Many times
we strive for acceptance at the expense of the higher knowing in our heart, our truth, and what we genuinely believe is good for us. We sacrifice it all for the sake of acceptance.
There is no thing you can gain on the outside that will make you more worthy, lovable, or accepted.
It is also pivotal for you to understand that the goal of knowing yourself has nothing to do with material gain; the goal is to express that which brings you profound joy. That expression is the reason you came into this life to begin with.
You have a purpose.
It is called service. Service is not servitude. The service I am speaking of comes from within your heart. The joy you feel from authentically serving cannot ever be taken away from you because its expression is you!
Many people I have met are just like you and me: our greatest adversities in life became our greatest teachers once we decided to seek a higher perspective rather than remaining stuck, feeling victimized. Once we took personal responsibility to create new circumstances from our truth, we began to create a new life.
What you feel passionate about matters. It is your individual expression of the divine within that cannot ever be duplicated.
It is paramount
that you release all self-judgment. The voice of the critical parent in your mind must be transformed into the voice of your dearest and best friend–and that friend must be you.
You cannot be effective, take risks, and expose your authentic purpose when you have much self-doubt and criticism blocking the divine flow of your energy. You can only create and give birth to your greatest self when you accept all of yourself from this moment–now–exactly as you are.
Never put anyone above or below you.
Release all judgment of yourself and others.
Release all false beliefs that anything outside of you will bring you permanent peace of mind and joy.
Realize that expressing your joy in whatever capacity you can and giving from your heart whatever you are able to give are virtues that will reward you.
When you begin to feel miserable
No matter what you have or don’t have on the outside, examine the storm clouds in your mind and notice how they have gathered so much momentum by unconsciously following the ego’s direction that you find yourself feeling anxious, worried, and in deep pain.
To train your mind is simply a matter of becoming aware of exactly what is going through it, a matter of noticing it and acknowledging it just as you would a passing cloud, and then consciously redirecting your focus to something beneficial and positive.
This does not mean that you ignore or disregard a negative situation. It means that you turn the negative around to find the gifts within it and ask yourself what you can do now to improve your feelings and situation.
One thing you must always remember: there is an indwelling divine spirit within you that no condition can ever extinguish.
Excerpt © Copyright 2005, 2012 by Barbara Rose, Ph.D. All Rights Reserved. from Know Yourself: A Woman’s Guide to Wholeness, Radiance & Supreme Confidence. Published by The Rose Group (January 2005) ISBN: 0974145742
Society & Transformation
When a tragedy happens, most people do not simply accept that there was a higher reason for the event to happen. Additionally most people may not comprehend that the unthinkable is truly a catalyst for greatly needed positive transformation within society.
Spirituality & Higher Consciousness
All of us want to be assured that the higher guidance we receive can be accessed at will at any time. This is the beauty of receiving answers and guidance from God. Some of the most important signs are:
- Guidance flows into your mind clearly.
- There is always hope and a positive energy, never gloom and doom.
- You receive information that is crystal clear such as, “Don’t go to work today, stay home.” This was actually given to a client who listened and followed through in her actions on 9/11. It saved her life although she was traumatized that everyone she worked with in the Twin Towers perished on that day.
- There is nothing to debate about what the guidance is. Following it, however, can be difficult until we realize from all past times how much we wish we would have followed that guidance all along.
- All you need to have is a conscious mind to receive the purest guidance in the universe. You will NEVER be guided to hurt yourself or initiate harm to others.
Relationship Chronicle
You have to be your own anchor in a relationship. You must be there for yourself no matter what happens.
You can only attract the person of your dreams when you know precisely what your standards are.
Being desperate is not an admirable quality. It is weak and is prime bait for an abuser.
When someone knows you truly have a zero tolerance for abuse, you can much more easily attract a partner who also would never even consider being abusive. This is completely possible. My husband is this way because I was equally so strict with what I would desire and what I would never tolerate.
When you are crystal clear on the type of person you would consider sharing your life with you must be that same person on the inside. Do you want a partner who is desperate and cannot live without a relationship? No, good, I didn’t think so.
How do you turn a lifetime of low self esteem around?
First you must know the qualities that are in need of transformation and then you must be willing to use all of your inner resolve to be true to the real you that you are now becoming.
© Copyright 2012 Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved.
Pippa Chronicle
With hyped woes swirling around the media rendering Pippa Middleton as fearful of being undateable, Dr. Barbara Sherry Rose shares a different, inspiring perspective for Pippa via the following Q & A.
Q. Is Pippa Truly Undateable?
A. Absolutely not. Pippa has been thrust into the position of being one of the most dignified eligible bachelorettes in the world, just as her loved sister Kate Middleton was not so long ago.
Q. Why are guys scared off?
A. Many guys simply don’t fit the bill of being the uncle of the soon-to-be King of England’s children. There are national and international security concerns, daily media coverage, and the man who lands Pippa will have to be the highest caliber person of impeccable integrity.
Q. What about Pippa’s role?
A. Just like the female version of the husband she will attract, Pippa will fare well with the following guidelines:
* Pippa must be a lady at all times.
* She will feel far less nervous and fearful when she focuses her attention on her life purpose instead of on a potential husband.
* Pippa must make a list of every quality money cannot buy that she would want in a man with whom she will share her life.
* Then she needs to be the mirror image of those qualities such as being a person of the highest caliber with impeccable integrity, completely honest, humanitarian, and compassionate towards the downtrodden. In addition, she will fare well attending the events that are close to her heart rather than simply celebrity inspired.
Once Pippa knows her own value and realizes that her influence can potentially reach humanity on a global scale, she will place much more importance and emphasis on living from the heart – from the people and for the people.
Q. What is the best way Pippa can attract a husband?
A. The same way all of us do: Know who you are, exactly what you want in a partner, have crystal clear boundaries and guidelines on what you will and will not tolerate, then get super focused on your own life. We tend to meet our partners “when we least expect it.”
Q. Any advice on the type of men Pippa should avoid?
A. Definitely. Pippa is urged to steer clear of men who want prestige, flash and and put themselves in the media’s eye to obtain it.
Q. You mentioned, “Every quality money cannot buy.” How does this play out?
A. I was single for a long time and had to transform a lifetime of issues such as being a people pleaser and earth’s biggest String Along doormat, to become a person I could feel proud of for living to make a positive difference in our world.
I had a list of the most admirable qualities within my heart and mind, and I knew, without any doubt that the first abusive word or gesture would be the last time a man would see me. Zero tolerance for abuse means ZERO, (read not one time with a warning.) I attracted my beloved husband when I was honestly not looking for one. I was super focused on making a positive difference and I trusted that Mr. Perfect for Me would naturally pop into my life. And so he did.
It is this same way for Pippa. Chances are great that she will be most suited for a man who also has great influence, even behind the scenes, someone who values privacy instead of seeking to be on a jet set, playboy, celebrity photo shoot. Pippa will do far better with a family man, someone who mirrors her own qualities, outlook on life and values about raising children.
I can only promise you that when you are crystal clear within yourself about whom the person is from the inside out, you will naturally attract the best man. May the very best man win Pippa. She deserves only the best.
© Copyright 2012 Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved.
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Vitaderm Scam from Malaysia
Follow-up from yesterday’s post about Vitaderm Scam Dr. Rose phoned her MasterCard and was told in addition to $79.99 unauthorized charge she was also charged a two dollar fee for international transaction. Rose was unaware that Vitaderm is based out of the United States as she paid for shipping only for her “free trial” sample.
Upon further inquiry Rose asked in what country is Vitaderm located. She was told Malaysia.
Now the shipment of an open jar of cream with no covering whatsoever, no box, and a scent that can be anything, such as baby moisturizer, Vitaderm is something you may want to stay away from. If you are unhappy with this product, it is important that you phone the company to cancel your free trial account so you are not billed $79.99 US plus international fees in addition to contacting your bank. Rose only paid for shipping hence they were easily able to capture her MasterCard.
This is another reason you may want to buy things via fully secure Pay Pal so you are protected from unauthorized charges.
