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- Dr. Barbara Sherry Rose has released this FOUR session deep intensive she recorded LIVE so YOU can learn EXACTLY HOW to receive EVERY ANSWER YOU NEED IMMEDIATELY for the rest of your life.
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- Any time you feel a lack of inner peace for more than ten minutes this pure process is a saving grace.
- When you utilize all six senses (instead of being severely hampered utilizing only five senses) whenever you feel stuck, upset, or worry, you can immediately receive a whole new perspective about any matter weighing on your heart.
- The higher perspective that is so vastly different from how you were previously viewing the situation, that you will be astounded at its truth and simplicity while it fully transforms the unpleasant feelings you were previously experiencing.
- Truly NO THING or process of advanced transformation in the universe can surpass the view of Infinite intelligence/God/Creator/Higher Self/Holy Spirit/All That Is/I AM THAT I AM, or the name you personally use for the highest level of wisdom, purity and truth.
- The difference is so profound, it has saved countless lives globally.
We are sure you will receive tremendous benefit from this. Here you can also post any discussion topic to receive more answers if you need them.
Enjoy this intensive from Barbara’s heart to yours.
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God’s Answers to Barbara Rose in a Personal Writing
By Barbara Rose, PhD
I felt that this is important for me to share with you, from my own private journal (a spiral 5 subject note book,) for the many people who are either not yet aware that they can receive answers from God, or people who are not exactly sure how to go about this process.
Here is what happened, so you can understand the order of events.
First, I sent out a newsletter card with a 4 quotes from the book 
“Dear God, How Can I Finally Love Myself ?” because I felt that those quotes would truly help people who are having a lot of difficulty in the self love area.
Second, I received (it appeared to be by accident) via email the following from a subscriber:
“She teaches “spirituality” with a strong emphasis on God and the soul. Check out what she says below.
It’s this same BS is rampant with these excletic so called spiritual teachers.”
Here are the 4 quotes that were “below” in the newsletter card:
4 Statements That Reflect Self Love & Truth
See How You Feel Living Them:
“1. I am in this life to live according to what feels true for me alone. I listen to myself, my heart, and I stop allowing myself to be ordered around by others, now.”
“2. When I am asked to do something that I really do not want to do, I say no. If the person asks me why, I simply say that I do not feel comfortable with it or do not feel up to it.”
“3. I remove myself from any person or situation that is abusive and hurtful.”
“4. When someone tries to tell me what I can and cannot do, I thank them for their perspective and let them know in words and actions that I am the only one who can make my decisions for me.”
Quoted from the Book: Dear God, How Can I Finally Love Myself?
Third, when I read what that subscriber said, I went into full blown, human EGO, hurt and anger. I felt like I was stabbed in the heart, I felt deeply hurt, and really angry.
Fourth, I noticed all of my emotions in the moment, and said to myself: “Barbara, there must be a reason that you are not consciously aware of that is causing you to feel this way. Do a writing to God so you can know what it is, and so it can be cleared up NOW.”
Fifth, I did the writing below, and I feel much better, clearer, filled with inner peace and true understanding.
*******Here is the letter to God and the answers I received below that REALLY turned around all of those negative feelings, and why. I truly hope this helps you!
“Dear God,
Please help me to uproot what is still buried in my unconscious for me to feel that kind of negative & hurtful reaction to what that subscriber said about me. Also, please guide me about anything else you see I need guidance about.
Thank you w/ all of my heart for Divine, Pure & Perfect Truth in Advance. Love,
Barbara
(Note – the words that are in CAPS below were underlined in my writing in the answers I received.)
My Dearest Child,
His comments about you were simply based on his own perceptions. They are not a reflection of your truth. The reason it got to you is because there is still a part of you that wants to be loved, accepted & even admired by others. The part of your ego that believes ANY criticism must be truth – because you have experienced MUCH criticism in your life, and you sought to gain approval from others in order to feel better.
This was simply a memory on the unconscious level that got triggered and it is very good that you ask about this because there will be MUCH MORE criticism of your work, your spiritual work, your seeking to help others, and it is precisely those people who are judgmental of you who are teaching you every time to view them w/ loving compassion, instead of taking their views into your being and allowing it to hurt you.
It felt like a stab in your heart, but what it DID was open up an old wound, so the toxic old beliefs could be replaced as they are now from your system, ego, and beliefs. You see, you KNOW truth, and when you see fallacy this upsets you.
Instead of getting upset, please realize that what appears to be fallacy to you may very well appear to others to be the real truth and vice versa.
It is okay to share this writing w/ your group – you are human and growing just like everybody else on earth, so perhaps a few others can relate to this.
ALLOW them – those who criticize you THEIR truth, while you continue to live according to the truth in your heart. It is really THAT simple. His truth does not have to be in a battle with YOUR truth. Both can be valid for each of you.
Many people resist even their OWN truth – so it obviously hit a nerve inside of him. This is all growth – for you, for him and for many others.
Sometimes it does feel difficult or painful, but as you know, this pain is extremely temporary.
You grow in compassion with every insult that is lashed on to you – and yet, it is not lashed on to YOU at all – it is simply another person expressing his beliefs. And, as you know & share, all people are entitled to their beliefs. So this is actually strengthening you.
I see you realize now & feel better. You sent something out from your heart. If others do not like it, this is okay. Your motive was to help, not gain popularity. Allow others their comments and please know they are entitled to them – just as you are entitled to your beliefs.
Many people resist change. You are embracing personal transformation and sharing from your experiences so others can relate.
All is well. Do you see now how it opened up an old wound, so it can finally heal?
Yes, this is truth. Everybody is entitled to their truth, and not everybody has to agree. It is called live & let live.
Love others for their views, even if they appear to be negative & hurtful about you.
Love them for teaching you more love & compassion in the face of adverse criticism. As you send the person love, you are free from the old ego negative unconscious belief that you need any sort of approval or agreement from others.
You do not. You only need the agreement of the truth in your heart.
Please remember that this is a period of preparing you for much. As you grow, you can smile one day when someone insults you, and as you have in the past, you can thank them for their valuable opinion.
This is good growth. It is a reminder to always allow others their truth, while you live yours.
Be Well. I Love You!”
*******End of writing.
© Copyright 2006, 2011 by Barbara Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved.
Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD Gets Married
It could be that when she got engaged on her 50th birthday and shortly thereafter received a twelve carat rock 
she married the man of her dreams on January 6, 2012.
She fell in love with a man who has every quality money can’t buy and after years of past relationship misery she is finally being treated like a queen.
He has every quality I ever wanted in a man. But more than that is how he treats me like a queen. I call him “My King.”
A far cry from “String Along Valley” Barbara is releasing a new relationship bestseller “Treated Like a Queen.”
Every person needs to know what it takes to be treated so well. There definitely is a system to be like a queen. The mystery is finally solved and I’m sharing it with the world.
Barbara is hard at work creating a mega empire of philanthropic deeds with The Rose Group Philanthropic Foundation. The Rose Group is launching a whole new world of foreign language jobs to uplift humanity, and Barbara looks forward to meeting you as she begins a world tour tied with the United Nations to end world hunger.
Be ready to see a whole lot of news in Headline Times, including relationship news.
I used to think maybe there could not be a man who would meet up to my standards because after a lifetime of unhappy relationships I wondered if it was possible. Absolutely, and I’m ecstatic to share with the world what it takes to be treated so well. It’s being THE ONE in every way. I’m deeply grateful.
Personal Growth & Transformation
Barbara shares from her tears and pain how to transform into your highest expression of self.
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Renowned Relationship Guidance
When you are searching for REAL relationship guidance, the kind that is both sincere and life changing, you’ve arrived at an unparalleled place. You will feel like you’ve made a real friend. Barbara shares passionately about how she turned it all around.
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How Miracles are Created
By Barbara Rose, PhD
There is a calling from humanity coming from every corner of the globe. This calling is felt in the higher dimensions as pleas and feelings of desperation are felt from all who wish for a miracle in their life.
Here is your answer as to exactly how miracles are created so you can learn how to bring them about in your life.
Miracles Are All Energy
Every plea and request that you have in your life is filled with energy.
When you feel afraid, what you are actually doing is surrounding yourself with a sort of blanket that covers up your ability to create a miracle.
On the other hand, when you have perfect faith that all you need or wish to unfold will, in fact, do so – then you have released the negativity and have allowed the Divine to work in your life in so many ways you cannot see with your 5 senses – and yet – the Divine is active in your life at all times.
What is required of you to manifest a miracle in your life is to ask for Divine assistance and at the same time, remember any past event where a “miracle” came about.
What this will do is show you from your ego’s fearful personality level that if it happened in the past, it can happen again NOW!
How the Divine Works in Your Life
You are surrounded at all times and connected at all times to your Higher Self, your Over Soul, God, All That Is, Divine Source, as well as Angels who have been assigned to you to bring about all of the good you wish to manifest.
The key to this is perfect TRUST.
Trust is crucial – because this alleviates the negative energy, & makes room for the positive to enter.
Prayer must be done on a level of gratitude as trust, as opposed to begging.
You are a Divine expression of God, or whatever name you give to your Highest source of wisdom and guidance. Therefore, there is no need to beg – because you are as Divine as those to whom you pray!
How Miracles Take Shape
There are many people who will connect to your energy, either positive, or negative, as the universe is completely neutral.
So when your focus is on trust and faith – you WILL attract those of a like energy into your life, and so you may call it a “miracle” however, what it actually is, is your intention, and your energy & trust combined that has lifted to a higher & more positive vibration, where you do attract exactly what you need.
How Your Help Creates Miracles for Others
The best thing you can do for anyone with whom you have a deep concern is to picture their miracle coming about and focus on this as if it were already complete.
By sending this positive energy to this person, or group of people, what you are doing is adding to the positive energy that surrounds them, and their positive energy is amplified, and so “miracles” are thus speeded up.
We are all one. There is not one Soul on Earth that does not matter. There is not one Soul that cannot rise from the depths of despair, to the heights of love, prosperity, health, and a life that is a beacon of hope for others.
Your Role Is Crucial
You play much more of a role in manifesting miracles than you may realize.
Pray, if you wish to, and see it as complete if that is your desire, and most of all, align with your Higher Self to co-create the miracles that you wish to bring about both for yourself and all others.
This, my dear children is how all of humanity will one day live. All will co-create with all, and life on Earth will be a daily, moment-by-moment miracle.
The miracle is in the moment – THIS moment – that is where the intention is set, and that is when it is made manifest, and then, you can simply trust that it is in fact, on its way.
Most of all ~ believe!
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- I put it on toast, add slices of fresh garlic and a bit of salt for a super tasty treat.
- I use it as sun tan oil – nothing works better!
- I put it all over my face (even under make up!) and have noticed fine lines disappearing in just a few days.
- I use it as a hand moisturizer.
- I use it every day in every way. You can add it to any moisturizer, liquid soap, any food recipe.
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I hope you enjoy this resource – I truly am!
From my heart,
Barbara
How to Attract Your True Match
By Barbara Rose, PhD
1. How can I find my true match?
2. What do I have to do to attract my true match?
3. Whenever I meet him (or her) how will I know this person is right for me?
4. What happens if we get into a fight?
5. I’ve always attracted people that hurt me in the past. How can I change that?
6. If I do attract my true match, how can I make it last?
THE ANSWERS
1. How can I find my true match?
First, you’re not on a hunting mission. You are a Divine Co-Creator, and you are able to attract anything into your life, including your true match!
There is BIG difference between “looking” and “trying to find” the right person, and ATTRACTING your true match into your life.
If you are out there “looking” the universe pretty much accepts your view, and you are perpetually “looking” rather than “attracting” – there is a big difference in attitude – which is where it all begins!
First, you truly have to BE the mirror of the kind of person that you would like to attract into your life as a true partner.
This does NOT stem from need but from a place of authentically feeling deserving of the best person in this universe for you.
Next, really take an honest inventory of every single QUALITY you would like the person to have that you will attract into your life.
How do you really prefer that they treat you?
How much alone time do you prefer?
Do you prefer that he or she is fully supportive of you in your life purpose?
Do you prefer passionate, fantastic and meaningful sex?
Do you prefer that they honor your opinions, preferences, and outlook on the small and big things in life?
Do you prefer that you share similar life goals?
Do you prefer that you are equally thrilled to be together?
Do you prefer that you can both share authentic communication in an honest and healthy manner, where you can always bring up anything that you may not like, and it is resolved with mutual respect, love, and understanding?
THAT is the person that you have to BE first in order to attract your true match into your life.
3. Whenever I meet him (or her) how will I know this person is right for me?
By really taking your TIME to get to know him or her!
You have to talk and observe how you interact with them, and how he or she treats you!
There is no rush or emergency. If you ultimately prefer to spend your life with your true match, isn’t it well worth your time to honestly get to know them before you dive into a relationship?
As I state in my forthcoming book: Stop Being the String Along: A Relationship Guide to Being THE ONE The beginning stages of a relationship is a crucial time to really see where the other person is coming from, BEFORE you jump into the sac with them!
It takes time, honesty and observation to really see what they are all about. You will KNOW if the person is right for you based on how you genuinely feel when you are with them, how they really treat you, and if this is how you have ALWAYS preferred to be treated on every level of a relationship. From communication to chemistry, shared values and lifestyle preferences, to how you get along and feel when you are together, as well as how you are treated if you have to spend time apart due to career schedules.
For example, one of you may have to go out of town on business. Do they call you? Do they send you flowers or a small surprise just because you are so special to them?
The ONLY way you will EVER know if someone is right for you is by following every small feeling you get when they are in your life, and by observing their actions, whether you are in person, or apart for the day, week, or month.
You will pick up on TINY feelings, and you really have to trust what your feelings are telling you, and follow them.
Always go with your gut instincts, and pay special attention to what you are picking up on. You “know” a lot more than you may realize. Some people like to ignore the red flag warning signs in the beginning of the relationship, because they might be too invested in needing someone in their life, rather than choosing to be with someone because they are that right for you.
ALWAYS make your decisions based on how you really feel, and know that if someone is right for you, then you will see it in their actions every single day that they are in your life.
4. What happens if we get into a fight?
You both sit down, look at each other, and say that you want to speak honestly, and come to a mutually agreeable solution so that you can move forward together and clear the air.
It really is as simple as that.
I’ll also let you know what you should NEVER do:
NEVER play games.
Say hurtful comments out of anger.
Say or do things to push the other person’s buttons or make them angry or jealous.
Try to “prove” how “right” you are.
Blast them verbally rather than listening and communicating authentically.
Hit them
Be abusive in ANY form.
ALWAYS speak from your heart, and say what you REALLY mean deep down inside.
ALWAYS communicate with the wisdom that their views are equally as important as yours are.
ALWAYS speak in a calm, rational tone, where your honest intention is to come to a solution – together – where each of your views and preferences are honored.
Most importantly – be completely HONEST!
5. I’ve always attracted people that hurt me in the past. How can I change that?
Please realize that what you have been “attracting” in the past mirrored your deepest unconscious beliefs about yourself.
These beliefs were most probably developed during your earlier years by taking on the beliefs about yourself based on the comments and behaviors that were lashed out to you by others.
In order to change this dynamic, you really have to change your entire belief system about yourself, and truly come to know that you are the best, and therefore deserve the best in a life partner.
As long as you believe that you are not that worthy, you will continue to attract people that treat you as if you are not that worthy.
Do you see the dynamic here? It all stems down to what you truly believe about yourself, and what you really believe you deserve.
I learned that the more self love you have, the more of a zero tolerance you will have for abusive and/or neglectful bullshit.
So you may need a self-esteem makeover, from the inside out.
You can only attract the love of your life, or your true match that will treat YOU like the love of his or her life, when you believe that you are really worth it.
This universe will always bring you what you truly believe on the inside, so as you change your view of Self, naturally the partner that you attract into your life will mirror your new belief.
6. If I do attract my true match, how can I make it last?
The ONLY thing that can sustain a relationship is genuine communication, and honoring the other person’s feelings as much as your own.
It is the day-to-day communication, IN THE MOMENT that clears the air, without allowing the small things to fester inside, and boil over out of control.
It takes guts to be honest and share if you feel something unpleasant, and it takes guts to listen with an open mind, and not wear ego armor to defend how “right” you are, when the goal needs to be mutual communication towards a mutually agreeable solution.
You BOTH have to learn healthy communication skills, as well as how to honor your needs as equally as you honor the needs of the other person, or vice versa.
Every couple has differences, it is the COMMUNICATION and mutual respect that can clear the air so that you can have lasting happiness.
You CAN attract and share a fantastic life with your true match. It takes a tremendous amount of Self Love, and equal reciprocation on all levels.
If you truly prefer to attract your true match into your life, BE everything you prefer in a partner, and have the beliefs about yourself that you would prefer your partner to mirror back to you in their words and actions at all times.
© Copyright 2012 by Barbara Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved.
The Challenges & Responsibilities of Bringing Through Answers from God for Humanity
By Barbara Rose, PhD
Bringing through information from God, The Holy Spirit, Divine Source to clients brings tremendous joy. With this joy is also a deep and important responsibility to bring through only the pure truth, and not censor the information, even if it might not be what a client wants to hear.
Out of the thousands of clients located all over the globe I have brought through information for, there have been a total of three that were “not happy.”
One was a 42 year old person in a deeply enmeshed relationship with their parents, still living at home, under the rule of Mom and Dad. It came through that the person needed to claim their independence, learn self sufficiency, and live their life purpose.
Another person drank alcohol seven days a week and it came thorough that they were an alcoholic, and if they wanted their life to change, becoming sober would be required.
Another person felt deeply insecure in their marriage. The description of the person’s spouse’s personality came through, and that it would take the client between three to five years to come to terms with their unhappiness in their marriage, so that they can have one with a spouse that was not flirting with others, even in front of the client, as this was causing the client feelings that were unpleasant to say the least.
So while there is great care in a client’s joy and happiness, there came deep sadness in “not pleasing” a client. What is a pure Life Transformation Specialistto do? Censor the information? Candy coat it to ease the client’s ego? Or dare to bring through the pure truth from God, the Holy Spirit, Divine Source, even if it may not be what a client “wants to hear”? I am a big believer in the saying: “The truth shall set you free” as well as: “To thine own self be true.” I would not be doing the client any favor whatsoever to censor what they might not want to hear, for this is a part of their soul growth, and even in planting the seeds of truth, somehow, somewhere in “time” the client will hopefully face their deepest truth so that they can soar on all levels of their life.
I remember sitting feeling great sadness in not “pleasing a client” and I thought to myself: “this must be how Jesus felt when he was lashed out at for bringing truth to others, even when they did not want to hear it.” Then, I learned from a respected colleague that all my responsibility was, was to bring through the truth. How they take it, and what they do with the information has nothing to do with me, nor can I “save or fix” them. Moreover, I do not have any control whatsoever of their reactions.
So in this light, a pure channel cannot take anything personally.
We are to simply bring through the pure truth, and pray that the client will do only that which is for his or her highest good.
We can only have a pure heart, and pure motives, to be of Divine service to help clients by bringing through pure truth from the light of God, The Holy Spirit, Divine Source. However, It is not our “responsibility” to do the work for our clients.
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Being Radiant, Excerpt from Know Yourself
By Barbara Rose, PhD
Being Radiant
Being radiant is being centered in your divine nature and truth at all times.
It is viewing yourself as a spiritual gift and as the creator of your life’s circumstances instead of viewing yourself as a victim of your life’s circumstances.
How you view yourself is one of the most important facets of feeling radiant. If you view yourself as “less than” any other being, then this false view will cause you to feel “less than.” And you will suffer. On the other hand, if you view yourself as an equal and divine member of the human race, you will feel your equality and your divinity.
First you must incorporate right mindfulness; you must live as a conscious being. To extinguish any negative self-view is critical if you are to know peace in being who you are, no matter what your external conditions.
Many women have been through and triumphed over much. We admire them, their courage, their belief in self.
It takes both living in your truth and having the courage to express your truth every moment of your life. Your truth is not negotiable. Once you negate your truth to please another, your self-confidence will greatly diminish. Alternatively, when you decide to be true to yourself at all times and under all circumstances, you will radiate with glowing self-esteem.
Belief in self also means taking a simple inventory of your true purpose, how you serve, and which ways of service bring you the most joy. If you are a parent, providing love and support to your children is a gift of service that will fill your heart with joy.
If you are a writer, the words you write might bring solace and understanding to others who are struggling, and so writing is an expression of a sacred part of your being. When you receive letters about the words you’ve expressed and the difference you have made for others, the joy is pure; but it is not a condition of your worth.
Whether someone likes the words you write or not makes no difference in your intrinsic value as a spiritual human being.
Spirituality in Your Creative Process
Your soul, your spirit is filled with eons of experiences accumulated from lifetime to lifetime.
During this new era, we are clearing karmic patterns, releasing all of the negative untruths about ourselves, in order to shine as the spiritual beings we are.
This is a time of deep cleansing, renewal, and new life. It is a sacred time in which every belief you have ever had will be called into question by the experiences in your daily life.
You will be forced to decide what truly matters to you, and how you wish to spend the rest of your life. If you are thrilled to be alive, if you feel that you matter regardless of what you have on the outside, if you are living in the moment when every divine and extraordinary idea is given to you–in the moment–then your life will be filled with much more peace.
If you are seeking outside of yourself for validation or to acquire something in order to feel you matter, this struggle will leave you feeling like a bottomless pit that can never be filled.
Your worth is never contingent on external conditions. It is contingent solely on inner peace and living according to your highest truths in the moment–this moment.
The Courage to Change
Many women face situations in which they are miserable, and they falsely believe they should stay in their miserable circumstances. This false belief breeds more insecurity and lowers your self-worth. To truly glow and shine from the inside out, you might just have to take some of the biggest risks that you have been so afraid to take, so the truth of your actions can match the truth you feel deep inside.
Once you take a risk and actually listen to your inner voice–the one that is telling you to rid yourself of any condition, person, or circumstance that is causing misery in your life–once you take the risk to be true to yourself, you will begin to glow and radiate more confidence than you have ever felt before.
You see, becoming whole requires complete self-truth.
Honoring your self-truth turns into radiance.
Living according to your truth and intrinsic joy of being of genuine service to yourself and others in your own unique way leads to both supreme confidence and a life filled with peace.
Nothing on the outside can turn your world upside down once you find your inner truth and live according to it in each moment and circumstance that you face.
No experience in your life can cause you to contemplate taking your own life when you are actually aware that experiences are just that–experiences–and they do not ever constitute your worth as a spiritual being, as a woman, as an equal member of the human race.
No matter what anybody has ever told you about yourself, if it feels degrading in any way, it is a lie–because you were not born with it.
Even if you have made many mistakes or have done many things “wrong” in your life, your soul is still pure and you can follow your truth. Thus you can create an entire new life from the bottom up once you realize that the supreme moment of now is your starting point–as well as the place you must always stay if you are to be focused, effective, helpful to yourself and others, and the grand soul you came into this life to be.
Excerpt © Copyright 2005, 2012 by Barbara Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved. from Know Yourself: A Woman’s Guide to Wholeness, Radiance & Supreme Confidence. Published by The Rose Group – January 1, 2005 ISBN: 0974145742.
Answers to the Most Common Relationship Questions: Excerpt from Stop Being the String Along
By Barbara Rose, PhD
Excerpt from Stop Being the String Along: A Relationship Guide to Being THE ONE
QUESTION:
What to do if one person in the marriage grows spiritually and the other stays the same and refuses to acknowledge the other person’s beliefs as right for them? My husband thinks that my study of metaphysics is just temporary and that I will come back to his religion. I don’t know how to handle this, but the issue involves every aspect of our relationship. I don’t feel connected in any sense except by our two small children, aged 4 and 2.
ANSWER:
It is vital that you continue to follow your truth with respect to your spiritual growth. No one has the right to judge, criticize, or coerce you to follow his religious or spiritual preferences. This is not up for debate. You do not have to convince your husband or seek approval from him or from anyone else regarding your personal truth, spiritual values, or beliefs. Quite frankly, it is no one’s business but your own.
So I would advise you to ask yourself why you are staying in a relationship when the only connection you feel is through your children. If you feel the relationship is not satisfying and if you feel that your personal and spiritual growth are not being honored, it is perfectly okay to remove yourself from criticism, misery, and condemnation from the man you are sharing your (unhappy) life with.
Alternatively, you can stand in your truth and state that your spiritual growth will never be judged or dictated to by any other human being, and ask your husband to accept you for who you are, despite his differing views. Ask him if he would like it if you tried to dictate his religious preferences. You can ask him to honor who you are, and if he refuses to do so, then you do have the option to end the relationship that is more hurtful than supportive. You deserve respect on all levels. Please remember that.
QUESTION:
After 28 years in a dysfunctional marriage, I finally divorced my husband. That was 14 months ago. Now we are both changing and are back together, realizing that we both needed to change to become healthier people. With God’s blessings, hopefully,
ANSWER:
Absolutely! This is actually fantastic to hear. When two people love each other and realize that they both need to take personal responsibility to heal and evolve on all levels of personal growth, when each partner is committed to his own personal growth and supportive of his partner’s process, this is a gift.
Our greatest growth in relationships comes from being in relationships, not in isolation. Always share honestly. Always be true to self and have the courage to be real with your partner. You can never go wrong.
QUESTION:
How can you use your intuition to figure out where you should move to, to meet your partner, if you are currently single? I am going to move from the town I’ve been living in for 25 years and want to know how I can figure out where I should move to.
ANSWER:
Dear One, when you move to another town because you want to live there, to enhance your own life, and for no other reason, you will attract someone who is living his or her truth as well, rather than searching for a partner. The key here is in attracting by living your life for you rather than searching to fill a void. You will find that when you least expect it, someone who mirrors where you are within yourself will pop right into your life. So thrive and create the best life you can. Passionately fill your days and nights with all you love to do, and you will attract someone who is living his or her life that way, someone who will mirror you.
QUESTION:
How will I know when I am truly ready to be in a relationship, after not being in one for over eight years? I quit trying after my last relationship turned out to be just like my ex-husband, who was an alcoholic, used cocaine, and went into violent rages. I was severely abused by my natural father, sexually, emotionally, and physically . . . then sexually molested by my brother, brother-in-law, and stepfather (who also beat us). I know from counseling that my relationships with men were my way of trying to “fix” my father/male role models. I think I’m not ready to be in a relationship yet because I feel that I have nothing to offer. I am 200 lbs. overweight and have no teeth. I am also in severe pain most of the time because of fibromyalgia and lower back pain from a fall several years ago. To lose weight I need to exercise, but I am in so much pain that it’s almost impossible. I sometimes feel overwhelmed by all of this and discouraged, but I keep going. I am also an insomniac, and when I do happen to fall asleep, I usually have horrific nightmares. I am telling you all of this not for you to do something about it but so that you will understand my original question about relationships. What is a normal relationship, and how do I know it’s love?
ANSWER:
First, know with absolute certainty that you do have a lot to offer, even just by sharing authentically. It took a lot of courage for you to open up, and so many people can relate to you. Many others have asked for similar answers, so I thank you for your question.
Now, it is time you forced yourself to discover every wonderful quality you have from the inside out. Your worth is not determined by your weight or your teeth. All of this can be adjusted. You can get a dental bridge and have teeth. Some people are overweight due to thyroid problems, and they are just as worthy as people who are stick thin. This is a time to love yourself by discovering what you truly love, what you really want to express from within concerning your life purpose. These discoveries will help you to heal your self-degrading feelings. Take heart. I used to be the world’s biggest doormat. I had an unhappy childhood, failed relationships, and very low self-esteem. I had to discover my passion, find my value from the inside out, and express it as my joy-filled work each day in order to feel my value as an equal member of the human race.
Nobody is better than you. Nobody is less than you. A normal relationship is one in which you can value yourself and the other person equally. In a normal relationship, you are treated beautifully, and you treat the other person beautifully. A normal relationship has one prerequisite: you must really love yourself. Plenty of people who write to me and many people I know look like models, and they still feel unworthy. I used to be one of them, too.
Ask yourself this: If you had ten million dollars in the bank and could do something for the rest of your life that would fill you with great joy, what would that be? What would bring you so much joy that you would do it for free? Search within for the answer. It will lead you to discover your life purpose. Who are the people you admire and connect with from your heart? What are they doing with their lives? That is a good indicator of a natural direction for you, a natural purpose for your life. Moreover, perhaps you suffered the experiences you have been through so that you could reach out and help others overcome their abuse and pain. Usually, our greatest challenges lead to our greatest life purpose fulfilled.
You do have a special purpose. And you are a special human being. Look into your heart to discover what really matters to you. Then bring it out into your life as your work. Being an example stems from your heart, not from your looks. You will attract a wonderful man into your life once you discover and believe that you are wonderful.
QUESTION:
Is unconditional love possible between two persons in a relationship?
ANSWER:
Yes, as long as they both love themselves unconditionally, without self-judgment, self-criticism, or self-abuse of any kind. You can only give what you have on the inside.
QUESTION:
How can I help myself to recognize the “one” that I am supposed to spend my life with?
ANSWER:
When you can be your authentic self in every way with that person, when you treat each other equally and beautifully, love each other’s company, communicate openly and honestly, share similar values, respect each other on all levels without ever compromising your truths, and have wonderful chemistry and passion in bed, then you will recognize that you have found “the one” for you.
QUESTION:
Is there a soul mate for each person?
ANSWER:
Yes, but not every person meets a soul mate in this lifetime. Many people have soul agreements to work out karma from previous lives together or to support each other in this life. We also may experience a soul level recognition with many people in our lives, such as with our best friends or relatives.
A soul mate relationship is not always a bed of roses. It can be one of the most growth-filled and transformative relationships we ever have; and it may or may not last for the remainder of this life, although it serves a deeply important purpose for individual growth.
If you want to attract a wonderful match or spiritual partner, grow to love yourself deeply with genuine appreciation for the person you are. Shine and express all that you came into this life to be and express. You will certainly and naturally attract a wonderful counterpart who will mirror your highest level of growth, and you can share an astounding relationship with that person as your equal on all levels.
There is no “perfect” person. Thinking of a soul mate as such is a myth. But you can attract an incredible person into your life once you become the incredible person you came into this life to be and express on all levels.
QUESTION:
Why must we be prepared to accept that some wonderful relationships, even of soul mates, are destined to end? Phrased differently, how can we know if a sacred contract is going to result in a relationship ending? How can we carry love forward from that point?
ANSWER:
We cannot hold on to another person for dear life. We never know if suddenly a person is going to be out of our lives. The most important thing is to be and share your greatest self with the one you love, and create the most joy-filled life possible each moment you are fortunate to experience love with another. Life is filled with constant change. Love with all of your heart, share all of who you are, do your best, be your best, express your truth, and always allow the other person the same freedom of being and expression. There are no guarantees in life, but loving fully and purely is one of the most rewarding experiences of life on earth.
QUESTION:
How will I ever feel that I can trust enough and become vulnerable enough to be emotionally intimate with someone without giving away my power?
ANSWER:
The only way you can ever trust another is to first trust yourself, your feelings, your instincts–and listen to them. Then a person can earn your trust over time and through many small experiences. Notice what you instinctively pick up on. Watch to see if the person’s words and actions match.
Don’t just give all of your trust to others without getting to know them over time.
When people show you that they can be counted on by following through on what they say and by sharing themselves, you can slowly open up and share yourself. You can share your truth and be emotionally intimate by standing in your truth, regardless of what they do or say.
Never back out of what is true for you to please another person–that is giving away your power.
QUESTION:
How do you change someone’s belief system?
ANSWER:
You don’t. Ever.
Would you like it if someone tried to change your belief system?
You must respect all human beings enough to allow them to be who they are, even if you have different preferences or beliefs. You are not on this earth to change your belief system to please any other person. Therefore, no other person is on this earth to change his or her belief system to please you.
QUESTION:
Sometimes you can be in a dating relationship and it can be great, and then you get a vibe that the partner is not 100 percent there, as they once were. Immediately, women in general start to analyze: “Why didn’t he call me? He always calls me at this time. What does that mean?” Then women start to doubt themselves, overanalyze, and wind up making it worse. Women then say: “Well, if he’s not calling me, I’m not going to call him.” And they start giving out weird vibes and all turns to dust.
When you are feeling doubt in a relationship that once was strong, what do you do? How do you address it?
ANSWER:
The best thing to do is to get super absorbed in your life, your purpose, and allow the other person his or her space.
Then, when you do speak, you can make plans to laugh and have a blast for the next time you get together.
If you are secure within yourself and truly absorbed in your life purpose, you may notice that you don’t always have the chance to make a call at the exact same moment every day. But if your world is revolving around the other person’s phone call, then of course you’re going to feel insecure, because you are more focused on the other person than on yourself.
Sometimes people need some breathing room, time to call their own. Maybe they just want to rest or are on the phone with a friend or are watching a movie and don’t realize what time it is. Or maybe they are losing interest. Either way, the more centered you are within your own life and the more centered you feel within self, the less this is going to disturb you. When you do see each other, laugh! Create a great time. Create a wonderful memory. Share what is going on in your life, and show interest in what is going on in their life.
When you have a great deal of self-worth, your life will never hinge on another person. Never make the other your oxygen tube for a happy existence. Make your life purpose and sharing your life with the other a joy rather than an obligation.
When you are together, if the other person is acting distant or different, you can say something like: “I want you to know that I care if there is anything bothering you. And if there’s something bothering you with respect to me, I want you to feel safe that you can let me know, no matter what it is, and we can address it honestly with each other.”
This lets the person know that you are strong enough and open enough to listen, even if it might be to something you may not want to hear. If they think you’re going to crumble, and they are your world, chances are that they will avoid telling you something that they think might crush you. If you let them know that they can talk honestly, and it’s all okay, chances are greater that they will share anything that may be bothering them with respect to you. More than anything, be their genuine friend, at all stages of a relationship. Then you can each share authentically, with full respect for each other’s feelings, and you can clear the air at any time, honestly.
QUESTION:
How do you determine early in a relationship if there is a great chance for success? The reason for my question is this: I have been in a relationship for close to six years, and my significant other decided to break things off. She says it’s because she has a fear of commitment. How could I have seen or known this earlier?
ANSWER:
The truth is that we do not know if a relationship is going to last forever. If a person has commitment issues and shows that right from the start, then there is nothing you can do or say to change the other person. Trust me on this. I tried it for four years in String Along Valley. Moreover, if you were with a person and decided that you did not want to continue the relationship or share the rest of your life with her, you would have every right to follow your truth. She simply did what she wanted to do, and by doing so she opened the door for you to attract someone into your life who is looking for all you are.
It’s usually a gift when people leave our lives. I learned a saying: “When the universe says no, that means there is a better yes for us on the way!
Next time, you will be able to look over the string along warning signs, and that will help you notice a lot more in the beginning of a relationship that you may not have been aware of previously.
In any relationship, you can only live in the moment. It is in the moment that you can share and express any concerns that you have. Open and honest communication is the absolute key to a successful relationship. That is the way for you to know and see it all truthfully, so that you will know what to do each moment of your life.
Exclusive Book Excerpt published by The Rose Group (April 2005) from the book Stop Being the String Along: A Relationship Guide to Being THE ONE ISBN: 0974145742
© Copyright 2005, 2012 by Barbara Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved.
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The 3 Most Common Questions & Answers I’m Asked about Receiving Answers from God
The 3 Most Common Questions & Answers I’m Asked about Receiving Answers from God
1. How do I know I’m not making it all up?
2. How do I know God really hears me?
3. Why would God want to answer me?
Now, I am going to give you the answers.
How do I know I’m not making it all up?
The only way you will know that you are not making it all up is with actual practice, and to see over a period of time that there is no way on this planet that you could receive the information about which you previously knew nothing about, and yet, it is all completely accurate. It takes practice, that is all.
How do I know God really hears me?
God is inside of you. Not up in haven on a throne with a feather pen, writing down your deeds to sentence you to a life in (non-existent) hell. You have something called a soul. You have intuitive feelings and perceptions. You have gut instincts. THIS is “how” God communicates with you. All you need to do is listen, and follow that “still small voice” all the time, because if you’ve ever had a gut feeling, you know that whenever you followed it, you never went wrong. Whenever you went against it, there was regret. So it’s not so much God hearing you, as it is are you hearing God? Do you trust the information you receive that is available to you every moment of your life?
Now, you really can take it a major step further, and take out a pen and pad, and write down your questions from your heart, where you genuinely want a real answer to anything that may be troubling you. It could be a personal or business decision. It could be about another person you are thinking of getting closer to. It could be about anything that really matters to you. Just ask the question, take some deep breaths, and ask from divine truth to come into your mind, and then write it all down as it flows into your mind. That is all there is to it. With a lot of practice, the ego will get out of the way, and you will begin to soar with ALL of you senses, as opposed to limiting yourself to just five. You will know God hears you, after you see the many answers you receive that really make a significant and positive difference in your life time after time.
Why would God want to answer me?
For the very same reason he/she answers any being that ever lived on earth. All of humanity is equal. If God answered people thousands of years ago, why on earth would he/she stop now? It’s time you equalized yourself with the rest of the human race, and stopped putting others above you. Yes, we can all learn from others, and we can all receive the information directly to learn from God right in the privacy of our own home. You are as much an equal part of God as Jesus was. Furthermore, Jesus came to bring humanity this same message, So after over 2,000 years, the majority of humanity is still operating with mostly five senses. I think it’s time the entire human race used all six – it would spare people a lot of misery when they can receive direct answers to anything that is on their, your mind. It makes life much easier to live when you have a steady light to guide you, no matter what you are facing.
© Copyright 2012 by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved.
How to Have an Awakened and Enlightened Consciousness
Questions with Answers
1. How can I become awakened and enlightened?
2. What can I do when circumstances get the best of me?
3. What is the best practice I can do in order to achieve an enlightened state?
4. When I feel down and upset, how can I transform this into personal awakening?
5. What is the key to Christ Consciousness and pure enlightenment?
The Answers
1. How can I become awakened and enlightened?
They way to awakening is to merge your thoughts with the Divine higher perspective. It is the way of anchoring the light of God, creator, within your mind. As you direct your mind to the light, and as your heart felt intention to serve as a being of light merges with your desire to become a living expression of Christ consciousness, God consciousness, this heart felt desire will help you to focus your mind on the light. When your mind is focused on the blessing even amid circumstances that are unpleasant, and when your mind seeks to serve and become one with your Higher Self, you are both serving God, as well as being an expression of God in your life.
This requires steady focus on what is going through your mind, and consciously re-directing your thoughts to the light. It calls for you to ask God to help you by seeing the higher perspective so that you can radiate out the higher rather than the lower perspective.
You came in to this life to attain your highest, purest and most loving state of being and expression. Release all attachment to outcomes. Commit yourself fully to being the light of the Creator in every moment of your life. Keep the thoughts in your mind pure, and your emotional body, mental state, and personality will then merge with and become an expression of the purest consciousness in this universe. This consciousness can never escape you, because it is you. Once you begin to live in this way every time your mind is focused on anything other than light, you will awaken. You will allow the enlightenment that is your essence to flow from within you, and you will serve yourself, others, as well as share with those who ask how to shift their minds focus to the light, where all answers, awakening and enlightenment is. You are this expression, and it is time now for you to live in this awakened state for eternity.
2. What can I do when circumstances get the best of me?
Many times, in fact, all times, circumstances that you are unhappy about have come into your life precisely so that you can find the light within that circumstance. I call this “strengtheners” as opposed to “testers.” It is your conscious choice to weaken or strengthen. The gift of free will and choice humanity has endows each spiritual human being with the ability to focus on the light behind the darkness, and to transform any dark circumstance into one of light.
This can only be done first with a decision within your mind. It is your heart felt commitment to discovering the higher reason, and moving in that direction that will enable you to become the best that you are as a result of the circumstances that have acted as catalysts for your coming into your highest and purest state of being and expression. This is your purpose. It is to be the light, under all circumstances, and to bring light to those circumstances. Then, you will be living and sharing the higher purpose. Personal and global transformation is the result of this, where light transforms darkness. And it is your mind, focus, dedication, and expression of this light that will serve to help uplift the lives of those who are undergoing circumstances similar to yours.
3. What is the best practice I can do in order to achieve an enlightened state?
First, breathe. Then ask God, your Higher Self, Holy Spirit, Source or whatever name you give to the source of the pure love, light and truth in the universe to help you see the light. When you ask for the higher perspective, and when you focus on light, and practice Higher Self communication on a daily basis, you will come to know that the practice is never a ritual. It is a pure state that comes from your heart to bring you into your highest awareness, awakening, and then inner peace will replace any internal discord you may feel.
Dedicate yourself to serve as a beacon of light from your heart. Share with others the higher perspective you have realized. Remember that no one person can ever be the source of your enlightenment. You are source, and it is in connecting to this unlimited, boundless and eternal expression of light with every thought, motive and deed that you will achieve an enlightened state. What your mind focuses on is the key combined with the purest intentions within your heart. BE the light.
Ask that light permeate every corner of your life, and consciousness. As your unwavering dedication to being this expression of Divine light and love continues, you will only feel light and love. You will then be enlightened and feel inner peace at all times, under all circumstances, because you will know that light is the source of all circumstances to help you to see the light that you are, which no outer circumstance can ever extinguish.
4. When I feel down and upset, how can I transform this into personal awakening?
With compassion. Have compassion for yourself and all others. Have compassion for the circumstances that are there to help you honor your highest truth. When you feel down, it is usually because there is an external condition that your personality is not happy about. Go beyond the personality level, and ask for the higher perspective. This will end the cycle of internal discord. This will begin the cycle of seeing every circumstance from the Highest perspective which will free you from drama.
It will open your mind to the transformation that is about to be birthed from within you. Bless every person and circumstance as you view them to be catalysts for your personal and spiritual evolution. Once you have done this, you will no longer feel upset. You will feel free. This feeling of pure inner freedom that is never bound to a circumstance or situation is the result of personal awakening. View each time you feel down as an opportunity to move into the light of the higher perspective. It is from this vantage point that all internal upset will be transformed into internal peace.
5. What is the key to Christ Consciousness and pure enlightenment?
Your heart centered, pure motives as well as your unwavering dedication and commitment to become the physical embodiment of Christ consciousness every moment of your life. When your heart and mind are aligned in this manner, with steady focus on the light behind each circumstance, you will feel they key in your heart. The key is filled with the purest of love. To uplift yourself, and then to help others by example in any manner that is necessary. Show compassion instead of anger.
Give understanding. Remove yourself from all negativity. Be the light you wish to see in this world, and know one thing: You are not only an expression of the light, you are the light giving expression. This is the key. Remember it always, and live it with every breath you take. This path is filled with radiant inner peace. It is the path that yields the most joy as it naturally spreads joy to all others, regardless of space or time.
Consciousness transcends all space and time. When your consciousness is single focused, solely and completely on light and love – there will only be light and love, as well as the inner strength to carry it out every moment of your life. Others will remember your pure heart-centered example, and they too will awaken to and embody pure light, love, truth and the inner strength to carry it out until all of humanity lives in this way. And this, is the Christ Consciousness that is awakened within every human being. This is the time, and now, your decision to reach within your heart will engage your mind into its highest state, each moment, every moment, and thus, you will be the embodiment of pure enlightenment.
© Copyright 2012 by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved
How to Transform Life or Relationship Difficulties
By Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD
A Sure Catalyst for Answers, Growth and Personal Transformation.
Let’s set the record straight and say that relationships are fraught with deep challenges, inner pain, turmoil and downright agony at times. I’ve lived through it myself, and have found a way that is beyond anything I can describe to get out of the pain, see the situation from the higher perspective as opposed to the personality perspective, and transform each and every challenge into profound personal growth and transformation.
For some of you, what I am about to share might seem a bit “out there” and for others, this will be a welcome relief.
How did I transform it all? How did I receive the wisdom to do it when I was immersed in deep pain? I will tell you. I honestly and purely wrote letters to God asking for answers, and I received them.
I asked for the highest perspective. I asked how to transform it all. I asked for the view I could hold within my mind to help me transcend the pain my personality was experiencing so that I could discover my truth, and then have the inner strength to follow through in my actions.
Many people think that God does not answer us personally. I can attest to the countless people I teach about how to receive answers from God that God does answer, and not only with answers, but with life transforming insight.
The process is actually simple. Write your questions from your heart, and ask for Divine guidance. Ask how to overcome your challenges. Ask how to deal with the situation so that your words and actions support what is for your highest good, as opposed to just what your personality might be stuck on.
Sometimes what we think we want is not always for our highest good. Many times, we can look back on situations from our past and admit that the people and situations that did not work out, ultimately worked out for our best. It’s easy to see from hindsight, and I want you to learn how to see and receive the wisdom you can receive so that even during your most painful and emotionally challenging times, you can actually receive the guidance you need that will far outweigh your trying to figure it all out on your own on the personality level.
When I was experiencing deep emotional pain from a “string along” relationship, I had been doing writings to God for many years. While I had tears flowing down my cheeks, the words of God came into my mind, as I wrote my book Stop Being the String Along: A Relationship Guide to Being THE ONE. I definitely did not write that book on my own accord, or from my wisdom. I was in pain. It was all written through me, chapter by chapter, and the words and messages healed my pain, and then went on to help so many other people who are in pain in the area of romantic relationships.
Let’s face it, if anything can get a woman to write letters to God, it would be from experiencing relationship pain, and wanting answers. You can receive answers too!
Use the emotional pain you feel in your heart as a catalyst for receiving the higher perspective. From that vantage point, you will receive objective clarity, guidance, insight, direction and truth. You will be amazed at the higher perspective you receive and even more amazed at how this helps you to transform your difficulties into authentic opportunities for personal growth and transformation.
When you write you questions, ask from your heart, and then as words flow into your mind in the form of an answer, write every word you receive verbatim and then re-read what you received in your writing.
Don’t ask for predictions, ask for solutions. Don’t ask how everything is going to turn out. That is based on fear. Ask what you can do, and how you can view the situation so that you are coming into your highest truth, even if you feel afraid of loss.
The one person on earth that you can never lose is yourself. The one place where you can receive every answer to every question that is weighing on your heart and in your mind is your God-Self within. Your Higher Self. This has nothing to do with religion. Whether you call it God, All That Is, Source, Holy Spirit, no matter what name you give it, the source is the same. It is our life force. It is that “still small voice” within. It is your gut instincts – and you can receive it all in writing, so that you can always have a place to turn to any time you feel uncertain. You will become authentically empowered, and your life will begin to transform as you honor your truth.
Many times, it is a process, as opposed to a one time event. Many times we might not follow or listen to the higher guidance we receive, such as to leave a destructive and emotionally hurtful relationship out of fear of not being loved, or being alone. However, the truth will ultimately win in the end as you keep asking for the higher perspective, and as you keep persevering with the true desire to want to grow and evolve, rather than try to change another person.
If you want true changes in your life and in your relationship, you have to evolve and change, just like I did. We all have to.
Relationships are the most extraordinary catalysts to get us to honor our truth, and our painful feelings cause us to ask ourselves what we really want. The answers we receive will be what we ultimately want on a soul level, and what is for our highest good. You are entitled to live a life of inner peace, rather than in constant emotional drama and inner pain.
Ask the questions. Read your answers, and above everything else, follow what you know in your heart to be your deepest truth rather than lie to yourself. You’re all you’ve got. Start to become your own best friend. Set the intention to lift yourself up by asking how to in your writings. You will receive all of the answers you need. It is your divine birthright after all.
© Copyright 2012 by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved.
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When Something Happens that You Don’t Like
When Something Happens that You Don’t Like
By Barbara Rose, PhD
Look within and ask yourself what you can do to come to the other side of any experience your personality does not like or that your mind views as tragic. There is light on the other side of our darkest moments. Look for the light, the higher reason, so that you can move in a positive direction rather than remaining in misery. When something you do not like happens to you, ask how this experience can serve as a positive catalyst for personal or collective growth and positive transformation.
How can you feel inner peace and feel whole, radiant, and confident when your expectations are tied to a future outcome?
The key is in knowing that you are a supreme being just as you are and that “bettering your life” is just a means of self-expression. It is your divine expression to live according to your grandest preferences–not because it will make you better but because you are serving as a result of discovering and expressing the best you have within you.
© Copyright 2012 by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved.
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God Answers Humanity’s Greatest Questions; When, Why, and How
By Barbara Rose, PhD
We have so many questions…
So many things we are trying to figure out,
So many things we are trying to learn, to be, to experience…
And to understand.
What if…
For just one moment,
You asked one question…
That would bring you the answer…
to every question you have ever had?
What would you ask?
Would you ask about how to receive more money?
Would you ask about how to help others?
Would you ask how much longer you have to live?
Or, would you ask about your love life?
What if you received an answer to each of your questions?
And, what if the answers all turned out to be true?
What would you do?
Would you ask more questions, or would you live and experience…
All you came into this life to be and express?
If you were assured of an outcome, would that ease your fears?
If you were told that you could never go wrong…
As long as you followed the truth in your heart,
Would you believe you would be okay?
When you stop searching…
And when you stop seeking,
Something miraculous happens…
You start Being!
Do you believe that you are good enough…
Just as you are, this moment?
Or do you believe that when you have whatever you want,
Then you will be good enough?
I am going to give you the answer to all of your questions…
Right now.
With every breath you take, you are experiencing life.
With every mistake you make, you are learning more.
As you begin to feel that nothing outside of you…
Can ever make you better or more worthy,
You will stop asking, and you will start being.
When that happens to you…
All you will feel is joy…
And inner peace.
Is that what you were after all along?
All you need to do is be yourself…
Who you are…
And share your expression with every breath you take.
Then, you will know that life on earth can be beautiful…
You will feel love.
How long will it take you to reach this state of being?
A nanosecond.
And, once you do, you will know…
That the answer to every question you have,
Is actually answered…
When you experience your heart, each day, each moment…
And with each breath you take.
There is nothing on the outside that will ever make you feel better.
The only thing that will make you feel better…
Is when you discover the best you have within you.
It is then, and only then, that the questions will stop,
And you will discover that…
You are the answer, after all.
God Answers Humanity’s Greatest Questions: When, Why and How
© Copyright 2012 by Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD All Rights Reserved.
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10 Guidelines for Best Parenting with Children of All Ages
By Barbara Sherry Rose, PhD
1. Always validate your child’s feelings and perceptions even if you do not “see” or “hear” what they do.
2. Place yourself as your child’s equal, rather than “above” your child.
3. Always explain why you are asking your child to do something so they learn and understand, rather than say: “Because I said so.”
4. Every day or evening give your child your undivided time and full attention so they feel that they are worthy by your actions.
5. Each day ask your child to share three good qualities about themselves, and validate them each day.
6. Be unconditionally supportive, without criticism, and allow your child to learn their life’s lessons, while you remain there as an unconditional support system to them.
7. NEVER insult your child, or call them a degrading name. ALWAYS separate the behavior from the child, and do not make any negative actions a part of their being. Share the more positive traits that you see in them to bring them back to their true beingness.
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Be fully supportive of their life’s path, with unconditional love and reassurance. Let them know “I Believe in You!.”
9. When they are going through a difficult period, ask them what they think they can do, or which direction they would like to move in, rather than “tell them” what to do. This gives them the credit of being highly advanced spiritual beings and helps them to learn from their own inner knowing.
10. Be open to any “negative” critique they may have of you. They are your teachers, and you can learn much from them by taking in what they have to say, and validating where it applies. This will help you both grow closer to your Highest Self that you each agreed to become in this life.
Are You Receiving Answers from Others, Connecting to Entities or to God, Your Higher Self?
By Barbara Rose, PhD
We all, every being, both in physical form and in non-physical form are of Divine essence, and we all have Source energy within us. All beings, all entities throughout the universe also have free will and choice.
There are beings of Light in the Higher Realms that are so
beautifully pure, such as the Angels. There are other entities of various names that other people channel, who have beautifully
supportive messages, and who have helped many people.
What happens if you depend on someone else to channel information for you after that person is no longer here? Or perhaps they stopped for whatever reason? Where is the source of your answers going to come from then?
No matter what name you give it, be it God, All That Is, Holy
Spirit, Divine Source, Creator, I AM, Higher Self, Christ
Consciousness, this is the one and only source that YOU can turn to, forever, and for eternity for guidance, clarification, direction, help, understanding, support and answers, for free, for the rest of your life, and this connection cannot ever be extinguished, cannot ever be taken away from you, and will never fail you.
You have free will and choice. So whoever you choose to connect to in the Higher realms is solely and completely up to you. What I do NOT want to see is anyone being disempowered by DEPENDING on anyone else in this universe for answers, because God, your Higher Self will give them to you always. THIS is authentic empowerment for humanity.
The key here is that you are authentically empowered and dependent upon NO ONE other than your Own Divine Connection. If you want some answers, all you need to do is ask for them. You can ask in a writing, or from your mind, or for a realization to come to you during sleep. You can ask anywhere, anytime, and for anything that you are not sure about, and you will receive the answers you need.
There is nothing “wrong” with connecting to anyone in the non-physical realm, such as a departed loved one, an Angel, etc. What I hope to share with you here is that you have the identical ability to bring through any and every answer as anyone else on earth does, and it feels a LOT more empowering to know, with ABSOLUTE CERTAINTY that you can do this.
It is crucial that you are authentically empowered and bring through the answers that you are seeking.
Never depend upon anyone else or “follow” anyone else but your own heart, your own truth, and know that when you start to “follow” this is not helping you to BE. There is no one in this universe who is above or below you. You are of Divine essence. God, your Higher Self is the all supportive, unfailing, purely loving, unconditionally understanding, Highest Source that works In You, As You and Through You with every breath you take.
Write to God, your Higher Self. Ask from your heart. You will receive answers, and once you know you are, in fact, receiving answers, I do promise you that any question you ever have, for any matter, no matter how large or small it is, WILL be answered with pure love, and according to what id for your Highest Good.
Please trust this so that you are never dependent upon anyone, other than God, Your Higher Self who is within every breath you take.
